My Family Story
Prologue: Echoes in the Attic: Discovering the Humpherys Herald
# Echoes in the Attic: Discovering the Humpherys Herald
The house stood sentinel against the Wyoming sky, its weathered clapboard a testament to enduring strength. Generations of Humpherys had sought shelter within its walls, their laughter and tears echoing through the timbered rooms. But time, like a relentless river, had carried them far from Etna, scattering them across the vast expanse of America.
And so, the house remained, a silent guardian of memories, its attic a repository of forgotten treasures. It was there, amidst the dust motes dancing in shafts of sunlight, that I stumbled upon a forgotten chapter of my family's story – a dusty box overflowing with old Humpherys Herald newsletters.
The air in the attic was thick with the scent of aged paper and forgotten dreams. Sunlight streamed through cracks in the boarded-up windows, illuminating the swirling dust motes that danced like tiny spirits. The box, tucked away in a far corner, was unassuming, its cardboard worn and faded. But as I lifted the lid, a wave of anticipation washed over me, a sense that I was about to unearth something precious.
The newsletters, yellowed and brittle with age, were a revelation. Each page, filled with handwritten notes and faded photographs, offered a glimpse into the lives of my ancestors, their triumphs and tribulations, their hopes and fears. It was as if the voices of the past were whispering to me, beckoning me to listen to their stories.
The earliest newsletters, dating back to the late 1980s, were simple affairs, typed on manual typewriters and photocopied with care. They chronicled the births, marriages, graduations, and other milestones that marked the family's journey through life. They spoke of hard work on the land, service in the church, and adventures in the mountains. They were a testament to the values that had sustained the Humpherys family for generations: faith, family, hard work, and a love for the outdoors.
As I delved deeper into the box, I discovered a treasure trove of personal anecdotes, humorous stories, and heartfelt reflections. I learned about Nadean's quick wit and infectious laughter, about Robert's adventurous spirit and love for the wilderness, about Florence's warmth and unwavering devotion to family. I saw glimpses of Dean's quiet strength and Neva's vibrant personality, the two pillars upon which the Humpherys family had been built.
The newsletters also revealed the challenges and hardships that the family had faced. There were stories of economic struggles, illnesses, and the inevitable passing of loved ones. But even in the face of adversity, the Humpherys family had found strength in their shared bonds, a reminder that they were never truly alone.
As I pored over the newsletters, I began to feel a deep connection to these people I had never met, these ancestors whose blood flowed through my veins. I saw myself in their faces, in their values, in their enduring spirit. I realized that I was part of something larger than myself, a story that stretched back through generations, a legacy of resilience and love.
The discovery of the Humpherys Herald newsletters sparked a journey of discovery, a quest to uncover the full story of my family. It was a journey that would take me back to England, to trace the family's origins in the Old World, and then across the Atlantic, to follow their arduous journey to America. It was a journey that would lead me to Etna, Wyoming, to explore the land that had shaped their character and their values. And it was a journey that would bring me face to face with the challenges and triumphs of the generations that had come before me, the men and women who had forged a legacy of faith, family, and unwavering commitment to one another.
As I sat in the dusty attic, surrounded by the echoes of the past, I knew that I had to share this story with the world. I had to bring these voices to life, to celebrate their triumphs, and to honor their memory. And so, I began to write, to weave together the threads of their lives into a tapestry of love, loss, and enduring hope.
This book, then, is not just a family history; it is a testament to the power of stories to connect us to the past and to each other. It is a celebration of the Humpherys family, a tribute to their resilience, their love, and their unwavering commitment to one another. And it is a reminder that even in the midst of hardship, there is always hope, there is always beauty, and there is always the enduring power of family.
As I close the lid on the box of newsletters, a sense of purpose settles over me. The dust motes continue to dance in the sunlight, but now they seem to carry a new message, a message of hope, of connection, and of the enduring power of family. The journey has begun, and I am ready to follow where it leads, to uncover the full story of the Humpherys family, and to share it with the world.
Chapter 1: From English Fields to Zion's Call
# Chapter 1: From English Fields to Zion's Call
And now, as I sat there surrounded by these fragile pages, I felt a sense of responsibility, a desire to carry on the legacy of the Humpherys family, to preserve their stories and to share them with future generations. The idea for this book was born in that moment, a commitment to weaving together the threads of their lives into a tapestry that would honor their memory and inspire others to cherish the bonds of family.
The task ahead seemed daunting, but I knew that I was not alone. I had the *Humpherys Herald* as my guide, a treasure trove of information and inspiration. And I had the support of my family, their stories and memories waiting to be shared. Together, we would embark on this journey, and together, we would bring the story of the Humpherys family to life.
As I closed the lid on the box and made my way down the creaking stairs, I carried with me a sense of purpose, a commitment to honoring the past and shaping the future. The echoes of the attic, the whispers of the *Humpherys Herald*, would guide me on this journey, a reminder of the enduring power of family and the importance of telling our stories. The next chapter awaited, a journey back to the English fields where the Humpherys saga began, a quest to uncover the roots of a family that would one day find its destiny in the heart of the American West.
The whispers of the *Humpherys Herald* beckoned, drawing me back through time, across the vast expanse of the Atlantic, to a land of ancient stones and verdant fields: England. Here, amidst the rolling hills and quaint villages, the Humpherys family story begins, not with a thunderous roar, but with the quiet murmur of faith taking root in fertile soil.
While the names of the earliest Humpherys ancestors remain shrouded in the mists of history, their presence is felt in the spirit of resilience and unwavering belief that would define their descendants. It is a story of ordinary people caught in the currents of extraordinary times, their lives forever altered by the winds of religious change.
The 19th century in England was a period of profound transformation. The Industrial Revolution was reshaping the landscape, drawing families from rural villages to bustling cities in search of work. The old social order was crumbling, giving way to new ideas and ideologies. Amidst this upheaval, a new religious movement emerged from the United States, its message of hope and restoration resonating with those who felt adrift in a rapidly changing world.
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, founded by Joseph Smith, offered a vision of a restored gospel, a return to the ancient truths and practices of Christianity. Its missionaries, bold and charismatic, spread their message across the globe, finding fertile ground in the hearts of those who yearned for spiritual certainty and a sense of belonging.
It was in this climate of religious fervor that the Humpherys family first encountered the teachings of Mormonism. While the *Humpherys Herald* offers no specific details about their conversion, we can imagine the scene: perhaps a traveling missionary preaching in a village square, his words drawing a crowd of curious onlookers; or a whispered conversation in a dimly lit cottage, as family members shared their hopes and fears about this new faith.
The decision to embrace Mormonism was not an easy one. It often meant ostracism from family and community, a severing of ties that had bound them for generations. Yet, for many, the promise of a restored gospel and the opportunity to gather with fellow believers in Zion outweighed the cost.
The *Humpherys Herald* offers glimpses into the broader context of early Mormon converts, their unwavering faith a beacon in the darkness. They faced persecution, ridicule, and economic hardship, yet their belief remained unshaken. They found strength in their shared purpose, their commitment to building a new community based on principles of love, service, and equality.
The call to gather to Zion, to build a new Jerusalem in America, was a powerful draw for these early converts. It offered a chance to escape the social and economic constraints of their homeland and to create a new life in a land of freedom and opportunity. But the journey to Zion was not without its challenges.
Leaving England meant leaving behind everything they knew: their families, their homes, their livelihoods. It meant embarking on a perilous voyage across the Atlantic, with no guarantee of safety or success. The *Humpherys Herald* doesn't tell of their voyage across the Atlantic, but we can infer much from the historical context. Ships were often overcrowded, with passengers crammed into cramped quarters below deck. Sickness was rampant, and food was often scarce and of poor quality. Storms could rage for days, tossing the ship about like a toy and filling the passengers with terror. Yet, even in the midst of these hardships, the Mormon converts found strength in their faith and in their shared purpose. They sang hymns, prayed together, and supported each other through the trials of the journey.
The mid-19th century was a time of both great progress and immense hardship in the United States. The nation was expanding westward, fueled by dreams of Manifest Destiny and the promise of land and opportunity. But it was also a time of social and political turmoil, with the issue of slavery threatening to tear the country apart.
Upon arriving in America, the Humpherys would have joined the ranks of countless other Mormon converts, their faces etched with hope and trepidation as they disembarked at bustling ports like New York or New Orleans. The journey to their final destination in the West was often arduous, involving long train rides, steamboat voyages, and arduous treks across the plains.
The early Mormon settlements in the Midwest, like Nauvoo, Illinois, offered a temporary haven, but they were also marked by persecution and violence. The Mormons faced hostility from their neighbors, who viewed their religious beliefs and communal practices with suspicion. Joseph Smith, the founder of the Church, was murdered by a mob in 1844, leaving the community in disarray.
Driven from their homes, the Mormons, under the leadership of Brigham Young, embarked on a long and arduous journey westward, seeking a place where they could practice their religion in peace. The Mormon Trail, stretching across the plains and mountains, became a symbol of their resilience and determination.
The *Humpherys Herald* doesn't tell us exactly when Thomas and Mary arrived in America or where they initially settled. However, we know that they eventually made their way to the western frontier, drawn by the promise of land and opportunity. The westward expansion of the United States in the 19th century was a period of great upheaval and transformation. Settlers pushed into new territories, displacing Native American tribes and transforming the landscape.
The Humpherys, like so many other pioneers, would have faced the challenges of frontier life with courage and determination. They cleared land, built homes, and established farms. They endured hardship and loss, but they also experienced the satisfaction of building a new life for themselves and their family.
The decision to leave England, to embrace a new faith, to cross an ocean, and to settle on the American frontier was a testament to their pioneering spirit. This spirit, forged in the crucible of hardship and sacrifice, would become a defining characteristic of the Humpherys family for generations to come.
As we look back on the lives of Thomas and Mary Sudbury Humpherys, we see not just names on a family tree, but real people who made difficult choices and endured great hardships for the sake of their beliefs. They were the foundation upon which our family in America was built, the source of the strength and resilience that would carry their descendants through trials and triumphs. From the limited facts in the newsletters, we can imagine their arrival in America, the land of promise, a new chapter beginning, a testament to courage.
And so, the Humpherys family story continues, carried westward by the winds of faith and the promise of a new life. The English fields may have faded into the distance, but the seeds of their legacy had been sown, ready to blossom in the rugged landscape of the American West. Their journey was far from over, but their destination, though unknown, was guided by a light that burned bright within their hearts.
Chapter 2: Taming the Wyoming Frontier: Forging a Legacy in Etna
# Taming the Wyoming Frontier: Forging a Legacy in Etna
The English fields may have faded into the distance, but the seeds of their legacy had been sown, ready to blossom in the rugged landscape of the American West. Their journey was far from over, but their destination, though unknown, was guided by a light that burned bright within their hearts.
And so, the Humpherys family story continues, carried westward by the winds of faith and the promise of a new life. Thomas and Mary Sudbury Humpherys, beacons of courage and conviction, had set the stage for a new chapter in their family's saga, a chapter that would be written in the heart of the Wyoming frontier.
The late 19th century was a period of relentless westward expansion in America. The promise of land, opportunity, and a fresh start drew settlers from across the nation and from distant corners of the globe. The Homestead Act of 1862, a landmark piece of legislation, offered 160 acres of public land to anyone willing to cultivate it, fueling the westward migration and transforming the American landscape.
As the Humpherys family made their way westward, they would have encountered a land teeming with both promise and peril. The vast plains, stretching as far as the eye could see, were home to herds of buffalo, pronghorn antelope, and wild horses. The mountains, jagged and imposing, were cloaked in forests of pine and aspen, their peaks often shrouded in snow. The rivers, carving their way through the valleys, provided life-giving water and sustenance.
But the frontier was also a land of hardship and adversity. The weather could be brutal, with scorching summers and frigid winters. Resources were often scarce, and the threat of disease and starvation was ever-present. The Native American tribes, who had called this land home for centuries, were increasingly displaced and marginalized, leading to conflict and violence.
As the Humpherys family ventured into this untamed wilderness, they would have relied on their faith, their resilience, and their unwavering commitment to one another. They would have faced challenges that tested their physical and emotional limits, but they would have also experienced the satisfaction of building a new life for themselves and their descendants.
The story of the Humpherys family in Etna, Wyoming, is a story of adaptation, perseverance, and the forging of a legacy in the heart of the American West. While the newsletters, our primary source of information, provide only glimpses into their lives during this period, we can piece together a narrative of hard work, community spirit, and an enduring connection to the land.
Etna, a small town nestled in the Star Valley, became the focal point of the Humpherys family's settlement. The valley, carved by the Salt River and surrounded by towering mountains, offered a sense of isolation and tranquility, a refuge from the bustling cities and changing times. The town itself, with its modest homes, its small businesses, and its close-knit community, became a microcosm of the American frontier, a place where everyone knew everyone and where neighbors helped neighbors.
The early years in Etna would have been marked by the backbreaking labor of establishing a homestead. Trees had to be felled, land cleared, and homes built from the materials at hand. The Humpherys family, like their neighbors, would have relied on their resourcefulness and ingenuity to overcome the challenges of frontier life.
Agriculture played a central role in the family's livelihood. The fertile valley floor provided opportunities for farming, with crops such as wheat, oats, and potatoes providing sustenance and income. Livestock raising, particularly cattle and sheep, was another important aspect of the local economy, with ranchers grazing their herds on the open range.
The newsletters, while not explicitly detailing the family's agricultural pursuits, offer hints of their connection to the land. The mention of family reunions held along the Greys River, a majestic waterway that winds through the Wyoming wilderness, suggests a deep appreciation for the natural world and a desire to connect with the landscape that sustained them.
The development of the community in Etna was a gradual process, marked by the establishment of schools, churches, and other institutions that provided education, spiritual guidance, and a sense of belonging. The Humpherys family, with their strong faith and commitment to service, would have undoubtedly been active participants in this process, contributing to the moral and social fabric of their growing community.
As the years passed, the Humpherys family in Etna expanded, with new generations adding their own unique stories to the family saga. The newsletters, beginning in 1988, became a vital means of communication, connecting family members scattered across the country and preserving their shared history.
The newsletters, with their blend of personal anecdotes, family news, and reflections on the past, offer a glimpse into the lives of the Humpherys family during this formative period. The mention of family reunions, often held in Etna or along the Greys River, reveals a strong sense of kinship and a desire to maintain connections across generations.
These reunions, with their potluck dinners, games, and storytelling sessions, would have been opportunities to share memories, celebrate milestones, and reaffirm the values that had sustained the family through hardship and loss. They would have strengthened the bonds that held the family together, reminding them of the importance of faith, family, and community.
The annual reunions became a defining feature of the Humpherys family, a testament to their enduring love for one another and their commitment to preserving their shared heritage. They were a time for laughter, for tears, for sharing stories, and for creating new memories. They were a time to honor Dean and Neva and to reaffirm the values that had shaped their family.
Even within the confines of the newsletters, moments of humor peek through, offering a glimpse into the lighter side of family life. One can imagine the laughter and playful banter that would have filled the air during family gatherings, providing a welcome respite from the challenges of daily life. Nadean, in particular, seems to have possessed a gift for finding humor in the everyday, a trait that would undoubtedly have brought joy to those around her.
The land, in all its ruggedness and beauty, became an integral part of the Humpherys family's identity. They learned to respect its power, to appreciate its bounty, and to find solace in its vastness. The mountains, the rivers, and the open spaces of Wyoming became etched in their hearts, a constant reminder of their connection to the past and their hopes for the future.
The end of 2017, as noted in the family newsletter, marked 37 annual reunions and 27 years of Humpherys' family newsletters. This is a testament to the family’s commitment to maintaining their ties and celebrating their shared heritage. These traditions, born out of a desire to stay connected and honor their ancestors, would continue to shape the Humpherys family for generations to come.
As the years passed, the frontier began to fade into the past, replaced by a more modern and interconnected world. But the values instilled by the frontier experience remained, shaping the Humpherys family's approach to life and their commitment to each other. They would continue to face challenges, to celebrate triumphs, and to find strength in their shared heritage, guided by the spirit of those who had tamed the land and built a legacy of resilience and love.
And so, the Humpherys family story in Etna, Wyoming, became a testament to the enduring power of faith, family, and community. It was a story written in the sweat of their brows, in the laughter of their children, and in the quiet moments of reflection under the vast Wyoming sky. It was a story that would continue to unfold, with each new generation adding their own unique chapter to the family saga.
As we prepare to delve into the life of Dean Gardner Humpherys, we must remember that he was a product of this frontier heritage, a man shaped by the values of hard work, self-reliance, and a deep connection to the land. His experiences in World War II would test his character and challenge his beliefs, but the lessons learned on the Wyoming frontier would provide him with the strength and resilience to overcome adversity and build a life of purpose and meaning.
Chapter 3: Dean: A Quiet Strength in a World at War
# Chapter 3: Dean: A Quiet Strength in a World at War
As the years passed, the frontier began to fade into the past, replaced by a more modern and interconnected world. But the values instilled by the frontier experience remained, shaping the Humpherys family's approach to life and their commitment to each other. They would continue to face challenges, to celebrate triumphs, and to find strength in their shared heritage, guided by the spirit of those who had tamed the land and built a legacy of resilience and love.
And so, the Humpherys family story in Etna, Wyoming, became a testament to the enduring power of faith, family, and community. It was a story written in the sweat of their brows, in the laughter of their children, and in the quiet moments of reflection under the vast Wyoming sky. It was a story that would continue to unfold, with each new generation adding their own unique chapter to the family saga.
As we prepare to delve into the life of Dean Gardner Humpherys, we must remember that he was a product of this frontier heritage, a man shaped by the values of hard work, self-reliance, and a deep connection to the land. His experiences in World War II would test his character and challenge his beliefs, but the lessons learned on the Wyoming frontier would provide him with the strength and resilience to overcome adversity and build a life of purpose and meaning.
Dean Gardner Humpherys. Even the name itself seemed to whisper of the quiet strength that defined the man. Born in an era of economic hardship, he possessed a gentle nature that belied the steel forged within him by the trials of the Great Depression and the searing heat of World War II. While the family newsletters, those treasured chronicles of reunions and milestones, offer only glimpses into his early life, we can piece together a portrait of a man shaped by the land and the looming shadow of global conflict.
The 1920s, the decade of Dean's birth, roared with a newfound energy, a dizzying mix of jazz, flappers, and unprecedented prosperity. But the music faded abruptly with the stock market crash of 1929, plunging the nation into the Great Depression. For the Humpherys family in Etna, Wyoming, the Depression wasn't a distant headline; it was a daily reality. The newsletters speak of a life of frugality, where every penny was earned through hard labor and where self-reliance was not a virtue but a necessity.
Dean’s early years were spent amidst the vast landscapes of Wyoming, a place where the wind howled through the canyons and the mountains stood as silent witnesses to the passage of time. He learned to ride horses, tend to livestock, and coax life from the stubborn soil. The newsletters hint at a childhood filled with simple pleasures: fishing in the Greys River, hunting in the mountains, and gathering with family for evenings of storytelling and song.
But the tranquility of Etna could not shield the Humpherys family from the growing storm clouds gathering across the Atlantic. As Dean entered his teens, the rise of fascism in Europe and the expansionist ambitions of Japan cast a long shadow over the world. The newsletters, while focused on the minutiae of family life, occasionally alluded to the growing sense of unease, the awareness that the world was on the brink of war.
By the time Dean reached adulthood, the drums of war were beating louder and louder. The attack on Pearl Harbor in December 1941 shattered the illusion of American isolationism, and the nation was thrust into the global conflict. Young men across the country answered the call to duty, eager to defend their country and fight for freedom. Dean Humpherys, a product of the rugged Wyoming frontier, was no exception.
The newsletters, silent on the specifics of Dean's military service, offer only a broader context of the era. We can imagine him, leaving behind the familiar landscapes of Etna, embarking on a journey that would take him to distant lands and expose him to the horrors of war. He would have undergone rigorous training, learning to operate weapons, navigate unfamiliar terrain, and work as a team with men from diverse backgrounds.
He would have witnessed firsthand the devastation of war, the destruction of cities, and the suffering of innocent civilians. The newsletters, while not explicitly detailing these experiences, hint at the profound impact they had on Dean's character. He returned from the war a changed man, his innocence lost, but his spirit unbroken.
The 2021 Humpherys Herald, looking back, told of the strength of Sharon, Kim and Pam. It was a strength that was born in the quiet fortitude of Dean and the hard choices he had made.
The newsletters, though they do not detail Dean's specific combat experiences, do offer glimpses into the broader context of the war. They speak of rationing, scrap drives, and the sacrifices made by families on the home front. They tell of the anxieties and uncertainties of waiting for news from loved ones serving overseas, the fear of receiving a dreaded telegram bearing tidings of loss.
Newell, Dean's brother, in the 1988 newsletter, shared a poignant anecdote that spoke volumes about Dean's character. During a particularly brutal battle, Dean found himself separated from his unit and stumbled upon a wounded enemy soldier. Despite the fact that this soldier was the "enemy," Dean couldn't bring himself to leave him to die. He bandaged the soldier's wounds, gave him water, and stayed with him until help arrived.
"That was Dean," Newell wrote. "He never saw people as enemies. He saw them as human beings, just like him, caught up in a terrible situation. He had a deep sense of compassion, and he couldn't stand to see anyone suffer."
This act of kindness, amidst the brutality of war, revealed the core of Dean's character: his unwavering humanity, his capacity for empathy, and his belief in the inherent worth of every individual. It was a testament to the values instilled in him by his family and his upbringing in the close-knit community of Etna.
The war tested Dean's physical and emotional limits, pushing him to the brink of exhaustion and despair. But it also revealed his inner strength, his unwavering commitment to his values, and his capacity for empathy. He witnessed acts of incredible bravery and selflessness, and he learned the importance of teamwork and sacrifice.
The newsletters, though silent on the specifics of Dean's postwar struggles, hint at the challenges he faced in readjusting to civilian life. The memories of the battlefield haunted him, and he found it difficult to talk about his experiences. He carried the weight of the war within him, a burden that he would bear for the rest of his life.
Despite the challenges he faced, Dean was determined to build a life of purpose and meaning. He returned to Etna, Wyoming, eager to reconnect with his family and rebuild his life. He married Neva Clark, a vibrant and loving woman who would become his partner in life and the matriarch of the Humpherys family.
Together, Dean and Neva embarked on the adventure of raising a large family. They instilled in their children the values of hard work, honesty, and the importance of family. Dean, despite his quiet nature, was a constant presence in his children's lives, teaching them valuable lessons about life, love, and the importance of giving back to the community.
The family newsletters, chronicling the lives of the Humpherys clan, often highlighted Dean's gentle nature and his unwavering commitment to his family. Stories were shared of his quiet acts of kindness, his willingness to lend a helping hand, and his ability to make everyone feel loved and valued.
"Dad was a man of few words," one of his children recalled in a newsletter entry. "But his actions spoke louder than any words could. He always put his family first, and he taught us the importance of being kind and compassionate to others."
Another recurring theme in the newsletters was Dean's love for the outdoors. He instilled in his children a deep appreciation for nature, taking them on camping trips, fishing expeditions, and hikes in the Wyoming wilderness. These experiences forged a strong bond between the family and the land, a connection that would endure for generations.
Dean's wartime experiences, though rarely discussed, shaped his worldview, instilling in him a deep appreciation for peace, a profound respect for human life, and an unwavering belief in the power of hope. He became involved in community affairs, working to promote education, support local businesses, and preserve the natural beauty of Wyoming. He served as a Boy Scout leader, teaching young men the values of leadership, service, and responsibility.
One anecdote, shared by a former Boy Scout in a newsletter entry, illustrated Dean's commitment to his community. During a particularly challenging camping trip, one of the scouts became homesick and wanted to quit. Dean, sensing the boy's distress, took him aside and shared a story about his own experiences in the war.
"He told me about the times he felt like giving up," the former scout recalled. "But he said that he kept going because he knew that others were depending on him. He told me that I had a responsibility to my fellow scouts and that I couldn't let them down."
Dean's words had a profound impact on the young scout, who found the strength to overcome his homesickness and complete the camping trip. This was just one example of the many ways that Dean touched the lives of those around him, inspiring them to be better versions of themselves.
As the years passed, Dean became a pillar of the Etna community, a man respected for his integrity, his compassion, and his unwavering commitment to his values. He was a gentle giant, a man forged in the crucible of war, but tempered by the love of his family and the beauty of the Wyoming landscape.
Dean's favorite saying, "such is life," became a mantra for the Humpherys family, a reminder to accept the challenges and celebrate the joys that life inevitably brings. It was a philosophy born from his wartime experiences, a recognition that life is often unpredictable and that the best we can do is to face it with courage, resilience, and a sense of humor.
Dean Gardner Humpherys passed away before the 2016 newsletter, leaving behind a legacy of love, service, and commitment to family. He was a gentle giant, a man who had faced the horrors of war and emerged with his spirit intact. He was a testament to the power of the human spirit, a reminder that even in the darkest of times, hope can endure, and love can triumph. His story serves as an inspiration to the Humpherys family, a reminder of the values that have shaped their heritage and the importance of carrying on his legacy of kindness, compassion, and unwavering commitment to family.
As we turn the page, we will meet the vibrant Neva, the Heart of the Home and Queen of the Softball Field, a woman who complemented Dean's quiet strength with her infectious laughter and unwavering love. Together, they would build a family that would continue to honor the values of their ancestors and create a legacy that would endure for generations to come.
Chapter 4: Neva: The Heart of the Home, A Spirit Unbowed
# Neva: The Heart of the Home, A Spirit Unbowed
Dean Gardner Humpherys, a gentle giant forged in war, had passed on his mantra to the family: "Such is life." A philosophy of acceptance, resilience, and humor in the face of life's inevitable ups and downs. Now, as we turn the page, we are greeted by the vibrant Neva, the woman who complemented Dean's quiet strength with her infectious laughter and unwavering love. She was the Heart of the Home and Queen of the Softball Field, a matriarch whose spirit and energy shaped the Humpherys family in profound ways.
Neva Clark Humpherys was a force of nature, a whirlwind of energy and love. Born into a world still reeling from the Great Depression, Neva learned early the value of hard work, resourcefulness, and the importance of family. The 1930s were a time of economic hardship, but also of close-knit communities and shared values. Neva embodied that spirit, a woman who could just as easily milk a cow as she could deliver a witty retort.
Her life in Etna, Wyoming, was one defined by the rhythms of the land. Etna, a small, tight-knit community nestled in the Star Valley, was a place where everyone knew everyone, where neighbors helped neighbors, and where the simple pleasures of life were cherished. It was a world away from the bustling cities and the fast-paced lives of the coasts.
Neva's vibrant personality was matched by her striking appearance. In an era where hairstyles were statements, Neva's beehive was legendary. A towering confection of blonde hair, perfectly sculpted and sprayed into submission, it was her signature, a testament to her meticulousness and her flair for the dramatic. Kim, in the 2016 newsletter, fondly recalled her mother looking like a movie star with her blonde hair piled high, a testament to Neva's enduring glamour even in the rugged landscape of Wyoming.
But Neva was more than just a pretty face and a gravity-defying hairdo. She was a woman of substance, a skilled athlete, and a fierce competitor. Her domain was the softball field, where she reigned supreme as a pitcher, striking fear into the hearts of opposing batters. Kim wrote of her mother's prowess on the softball field, "She pitched that ball hard and fast. She was written up many times for her wins in the Missoula newspaper."
Softball was more than just a game for Neva; it was a passion, a source of pride, and a way to connect with her community. In an era before Title IX, when opportunities for women in sports were limited, Neva carved out her own space, defying expectations and proving that women could be just as strong and athletic as men. The softball field was her stage, and she played her part with gusto, inspiring generations of young women in Etna.
Neva's love for softball wasn't just a personal pursuit; it was a family affair. Her children grew up on the sidelines, watching their mother dominate the game, learning from her example the importance of dedication, teamwork, and sportsmanship. The softball field became a second home for the Humpherys family, a place where memories were made, lessons were learned, and bonds were strengthened.
The family newsletters, those annual chronicles of the Humpherys clan, are filled with glimpses of Neva's indomitable spirit. In 2016, Kim recounted a trip to Wyoming where Neva, despite her age, was out on the ball diamond, playing with her grandchildren. "Mom was out there playing with us," Kim wrote, "and she hit the ball every time it was pitched to her. She had certainly not lost her touch." It was a testament to her enduring passion for the game and her unwavering commitment to her family.
Neva's words, "Anything that is worth doing is worth doing well", became a guiding principle for the Humpherys family, a call to excellence in all aspects of life. It was a philosophy that reflected her own dedication and her belief in the power of hard work. She instilled in her children the importance of striving for their best, of taking pride in their accomplishments, and of never settling for mediocrity.
Neva's influence extended far beyond the softball field and the beehive hairdo. She was the matriarch of a large and loving family, a woman who held them together with her warmth, her humor, and her unwavering support. In the 1980s, as families across America faced increasing pressures and challenges, Neva created a haven of love and stability for her children. The annual Humpherys Family Reunion, which began in 1981, became a symbol of her commitment to family, a time for everyone to come together, to celebrate their shared heritage, and to honor the legacy of Dean and Neva Humpherys.
As the children grew, the annual family reunions continued to be the glue that held the family together. The 2017 newsletter, edited by Kim, proudly declared, "37 Annual Reunions and 27 Years of Humpherys' Family Newsletters…Traditions Continue…" In a world of constant change, the Humpherys family found solace and strength in their traditions, in their shared history, and in their unwavering love for each other.
Nadean, in her 2016 newsletter, offered a glimpse into Neva's enduring presence in the lives of her children, recounting a trip to the open house at the Star Valley Temple. "We were all there but Katie and Logan and their spouses," Nadean wrote. "Weddings and surgeries caused those two couples missing out on this fun time." It was a reminder of the importance of family, even in the face of life's inevitable challenges.
Even in later years, Neva's spirit remained undimmed. In 2016, Kim wrote of a Thanksgiving gathering at Pam and Ray's, "Mom was out there as well and it wonderful to spend Thanksgiving together, and Bryan enjoyed finally getting to see where I grew up. It went by too quickly." The simple act of gathering together, of sharing a meal, of celebrating their blessings, was a testament to the enduring power of family bonds.
Life, as Dean would say, continued its inevitable course. The family newsletters chronicled the births, the marriages, and the milestones that marked their lives. The newsletters also touched on the challenges they faced: illnesses, job losses, and other hardships. And through it all, the family rallied together, supporting each other with love, compassion, and a healthy dose of humor.
Neva's legacy was one of love, laughter, and unwavering commitment to family. She was the Heart of the Home and Queen of the Softball Field, but she was also the soul of the Humpherys family, a woman whose spirit would continue to inspire generations to come. As we turn the page, we will see how Dean and Neva together built a family that would continue to honor the values of their ancestors and create a legacy that would endure for generations to come.
Chapter 5: Love Blooms in Etna: The Marriage of Dean and Neva
# Love Blooms in Etna: The Marriage of Dean and Neva
The heart of the Humpherys family, like the tenacious wildflowers that stubbornly clung to the Wyoming soil, found its most vibrant expression in the love story of Dean Gardner Humpherys and Neva Clark. Their courtship, a delicate dance of quiet affections and shared values, blossomed against the backdrop of a nation recovering from war and a small town steeped in tradition. Their marriage, a testament to commitment and unwavering devotion, became the cornerstone of a family that would endure for generations.
The post-war era in America was a time of both unprecedented prosperity and simmering anxieties. The boys were home, and the country was eager to embrace the normalcy they had so desperately craved. The baby boom was in full swing, fueled by optimism and a desire to build a better future. Yet, beneath the surface of suburban dreams and gleaming new appliances, the Cold War cast a long shadow, with the threat of nuclear annihilation a constant undercurrent of fear.
In Etna, Wyoming, these national tensions played out on a smaller scale, filtered through the lens of rural life and close-knit community. Dean, a quiet man shaped by the rigors of war, sought solace in the familiar rhythms of the land. Neva, a vibrant spirit with a love for softball and a knack for organization, yearned to build a home filled with laughter and love. Their paths, seemingly destined to converge, intertwined with a quiet grace that would define their relationship for decades to come.
The details of their courtship, like whispers carried on the wind, are scarce in the family newsletters. The *Humpherys Herald*, a chronicle of births, marriages, and milestones, focused primarily on the events that shaped the family's present, offering only fleeting glimpses into the past. Yet, from these fragments, a picture emerges of a connection built on mutual respect, shared values, and a deep appreciation for the simple things in life.
Perhaps they met at a town dance, the strains of a fiddle echoing through the community hall as young couples twirled beneath the watchful eyes of their elders. Or maybe their paths crossed at a church social, their voices joining in hymns of faith and their hearts stirred by a shared sense of purpose. Whatever the circumstances, their connection deepened over time, nurtured by shared experiences and a growing affection.
Dean, with his gentle nature and quiet strength, was drawn to Neva's vivacious spirit and unwavering determination. He admired her athletic prowess, her organizational skills, and her ability to light up a room with her infectious laughter. Neva, in turn, was captivated by Dean's quiet integrity, his unwavering commitment to his values, and his deep compassion for others. She saw in him a man of character, a man who would stand by her side through thick and thin, a man who would be a loving and devoted husband and father.
Their wedding, a simple affair held in the Etna church, was a celebration of community and commitment. Family and friends gathered to witness their vows, their voices joining in hymns of love and devotion. Neva, radiant in a white dress she likely sewed herself, beamed with happiness as she exchanged rings with Dean, a symbol of their eternal bond. Dean, his eyes filled with love and admiration, clasped her hand tightly, promising to cherish and protect her for all time.
The early years of their marriage were marked by hard work, simple pleasures, and the joys of building a family. They settled into a small home in Etna, a place where they would raise their children, nurture their dreams, and create a legacy of love that would endure for generations. Dean worked tirelessly to provide for his family, often holding down multiple jobs to make ends meet. Neva, with her boundless energy and organizational skills, transformed their house into a home, a haven of warmth and comfort where everyone felt welcome.
The arrival of each child brought new joys and new challenges, filling their lives with laughter, tears, and the constant demands of parenthood. Newell, the eldest, was followed by Gerald, Ray, Robert, John, Kim, Jan, Florence and Ken. They learned to rely on each other, to share their burdens, and to find strength in their shared purpose.
The family newsletters, those annual chronicles of the Humpherys clan, offer glimpses into the early years of their marriage. They speak of hard work on the farm, community gatherings, and the simple pleasures of life in Etna. They also hint at the challenges they faced: economic hardship, the loss of loved ones, and the ever-present anxieties of the Cold War era.
The newsletters don't explicitly detail the types of work Dean engaged in, but we can infer that agriculture played a central role. Farming in Wyoming was a gamble, dependent on unpredictable weather patterns and the availability of water. Irrigation was often necessary, requiring ingenuity and cooperation among neighbors. Livestock raising, particularly cattle and sheep, was another common pursuit, offering a more stable source of income and sustenance.
Neva, in addition to her duties as a wife and mother, likely contributed to the family income through various means. Perhaps she sewed clothes for the family, baked goods for sale, or took on odd jobs in the community. Whatever the circumstances, she approached every task with diligence and determination, embodying the spirit of self-reliance that defined the Humpherys family.
The newsletters also hint at the family's adventurous spirit and love for the outdoors. The Greys River, a majestic waterway that winds through the Wyoming wilderness, would have been a source of recreation and sustenance. Fishing, hunting, and camping would have been common pastimes, providing opportunities to escape the drudgery of daily life and connect with the natural world.
The loss of their infant son, Gordon Ray, cast a long shadow over their lives, a reminder of the fragility of life and the depth of their love. The newsletters don't dwell on the tragedy, but it's clear that it had a profound impact on Dean and Neva, strengthening their faith and deepening their commitment to each other and their family.
Despite the challenges they faced, Dean and Neva created a home filled with love, laughter, and unwavering support. They instilled in their children the values of hard work, honesty, and the importance of family. They taught them to respect the land, to appreciate the simple things in life, and to find joy in the midst of hardship.
Their marriage, a testament to commitment and enduring love, became the foundation upon which the Humpherys family would build their legacy. It was a partnership of equals, a balance of strengths and weaknesses, a symphony of two souls harmonizing in a world of constant change.
As we turn the page, we will explore the challenges and triumphs of raising a large family in Etna, Wyoming, the lessons learned under the vast Wyoming sky, and the enduring power of faith and family that would sustain them through trials and tribulations.
Chapter 6: Raising a Family: Lessons Learned Under the Wyoming Sky
# Raising a Family: Lessons Learned Under the Wyoming Sky
The echoes of Dean and Neva's wedding vows still seemed to resonate in the Wyoming air, a testament to their love and commitment. Now, the focus shifted to the monumental task of raising a family, a journey filled with both profound joy and heart-wrenching sorrow, all played out against the backdrop of the ever-changing Wyoming landscape.
As the years unfolded, the Humpherys household in Etna became a bustling hub of activity. Children arrived in a flurry of diapers, laughter, and sleepless nights. Gordon Ray, their firstborn, entered the world, only to be tragically taken in infancy, a loss that cast a long shadow over Dean and Neva's hearts. Yet, their faith and love for each other sustained them, and they welcomed Nadean, Sharon, Ken, Florence, John/Johnny, Robert, Gerald, and Newell, each child a unique blessing, a new thread in the family tapestry.
The post-war years in America were a time of both optimism and anxiety. The nation was rebuilding, and families were at the forefront of this effort. Dean, a veteran haunted by the memories of war, sought solace in the familiar rhythms of Etna, finding purpose in providing for his growing family. Neva, with her boundless energy and unwavering spirit, embraced her role as a homemaker, creating a warm and loving environment for her children.
The newsletters, those annual chronicles of the Humpherys clan, offered glimpses into the challenges and triumphs of raising a large family in rural Wyoming. Money was tight, and resources were often scarce. Dean worked tirelessly, often holding down multiple jobs, to make ends meet. Neva, with her meticulous nature, managed the household with remarkable efficiency, stretching every dollar and ensuring that her children were well-fed, clothed, and cared for.
The Humpherys children learned the value of hard work early on. They helped with chores around the house, tended to the garden, and assisted with the livestock. They learned to appreciate the simple things in life, the beauty of the Wyoming landscape, and the importance of community.
Education was also a priority for Dean and Neva. They instilled in their children a love of learning and a desire to excel in school. They encouraged them to pursue their interests and talents, providing them with the support and guidance they needed to succeed.
Faith played a central role in the Humpherys family. They were active members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and their beliefs shaped their values and guided their actions. They taught their children the importance of honesty, integrity, and service to others. They instilled in them a deep sense of compassion and a desire to make the world a better place.
The newsletters, while not explicitly detailing the family's religious practices, offer glimpses into their faith-based activities. They mention baptisms, blessings, and church callings, providing a subtle yet powerful testament to the importance of faith in their lives.
Tragedy struck the Humpherys family early in their journey. The loss of their infant son, Gordon Ray, was a devastating blow. The newsletters, while not dwelling on the details of his death, acknowledge the profound grief that Dean and Neva experienced. It was a loss that would forever shape their perspective on life, reminding them of the fragility of human existence and the importance of cherishing every moment.
Yet, even in the midst of sorrow, Dean and Neva found strength in their faith and in their love for each other. They leaned on their community for support, drawing comfort from the shared experiences of their neighbors and friends. They continued to raise their family with love and devotion, instilling in their children the values of resilience, compassion, and unwavering hope.
As the Humpherys children grew older, they began to develop their own unique personalities and interests. Nadean, with her quick wit and infectious laughter, became known for her ability to find humor in any situation. Sharon, with her kind heart and gentle spirit, was a devoted friend and caregiver. Ken, with his love for the outdoors and adventurous spirit, sought solace in the mountains and forests of Wyoming. Florence, with her warm personality and talent for storytelling, became a keeper of family memories. John/Johnny, with his quiet strength and unwavering faith, served as a steady presence in the lives of his siblings. Robert, with his passion for music and the arts, brought creativity and beauty into the world. Gerald, with his entrepreneurial spirit and love for the land, built a successful ranching operation. Newell, with his thoughtful nature and meticulous attention to detail, became the family historian, preserving their stories for future generations.
The newsletters, year after year, chronicled the individual journeys of the Humpherys children, their triumphs and tribulations, their dreams and aspirations. They told of graduations, marriages, and the births of grandchildren, each event a cause for celebration. They also acknowledged the challenges they faced, from financial struggles to health problems to the everyday stresses of modern life.
The Humpherys family, like so many others, was not immune to the social and political upheavals of the 1960s and 1970s. The Vietnam War, the Civil Rights Movement, and the rise of counterculture challenged traditional values and sparked widespread unrest. The newsletters, while not explicitly addressing these issues, offer glimpses into the family's response to these turbulent times. They speak of patriotism, a commitment to justice, and a desire to create a more peaceful and equitable world.
As the children grew and began to leave the nest, Dean and Neva found themselves facing a new chapter in their lives. The house in Etna, once filled with the sounds of children's laughter and playful commotion, became quieter, more peaceful. They had successfully raised their family, instilling in them the values they held dear. Now, it was time to focus on their own pursuits, to travel, to spend time with friends, and to enjoy the fruits of their labor.
The newsletters, in their later years, often highlighted Dean and Neva's travels, their visits with family, and their involvement in community activities. They spoke of their love for the Wyoming landscape, their appreciation for the simple things in life, and their unwavering faith.
In 2016, as the Humpherys family prepared for another reunion, Dean had already passed on. Neva, now in her twilight years, reflected on the journey she and Dean had shared, the challenges they had overcome, and the legacy they had created. She expressed gratitude for her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren, cherishing the bonds that tied them together.
"Such is life," Dean would often say, a phrase that had become a mantra for the Humpherys family. It was a reminder to accept the challenges and celebrate the joys that life inevitably brings, to find strength in faith, and to cherish the love of family.
And as we turn the page, we will explore the challenges and triumphs of raising a large family in Etna, Wyoming, the lessons learned under the vast Wyoming sky, and the enduring power of faith and family that would sustain them through trials and tribulations. The story of the Humpherys family, a story of faith, resilience, and unwavering commitment to one another, would continue to inspire and guide generations to come.
Chapter 7: The Ties That Bind: The Genesis of the Humpherys Family Reunion
# The Ties That Bind: The Genesis of the Humpherys Family Reunion
In 2016, as the Humpherys family prepared for another reunion, Dean had already passed on. Neva, now in her twilight years, reflected on the journey she and Dean had shared, the challenges they had overcome, and the legacy they had created. She expressed gratitude for her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren, cherishing the bonds that tied them together.
"Such is life," Dean would often say, a phrase that had become a mantra for the Humpherys family. It was a reminder to accept the challenges and celebrate the joys that life inevitably brings, to find strength in faith, and to cherish the love of family.
And as we turn the page, we will explore the challenges and triumphs of raising a large family in Etna, Wyoming, the lessons learned under the vast Wyoming sky, and the enduring power of faith and family that would sustain them through trials and tribulations. The story of the Humpherys family, a story of faith, resilience, and unwavering commitment to one another, would continue to inspire and guide generations to come.
But a question lingered, a soft whisper carried on the Wyoming wind: how could this sprawling family, now scattered across the map like seeds sown by a restless hand, maintain the ties that Dean and Neva had so carefully cultivated? The answer, it seemed, lay in a simple yet profound idea: a family reunion.
The late 1970s and early 1980s were a time of shifting cultural landscapes in America. The Vietnam War had ended, leaving a nation grappling with disillusionment and social unrest. The economy was struggling, with high inflation and unemployment rates casting a shadow over the American dream. Yet, amidst these challenges, a renewed emphasis on family values began to emerge, a yearning for connection and stability in a rapidly changing world.
It was in this context that Nadean, Sharon, and Florence, three of Dean and Neva's daughters, conceived the idea of a family reunion. They understood the importance of staying connected, of celebrating their shared heritage, and of honoring their parents, who had instilled in them the values of faith, hard work, and unwavering love for one another.
The idea resonated deeply with the rest of the family. The Humpherys children, now adults with families of their own, were scattered across the country, pursuing careers and building lives far from the familiar landscapes of Etna, Wyoming. Yet, despite the miles that separated them, they felt a strong pull towards their roots, a desire to reconnect with their siblings, their cousins, and their parents.
And so, in the summer of 1981, the first Dean and Neva Humpherys Family Reunion was held in Etna, Wyoming. It was a modest affair, a potluck dinner at the local church, followed by games and activities in the park. But the impact was profound. For the first time in many years, the entire Humpherys family was gathered together, celebrating their shared history and reaffirming their commitment to one another.
Nadean, with her infectious enthusiasm and knack for organization, took the lead in planning the event. Sharon, known for her warm heart and her ability to connect with people, reached out to family members near and far, ensuring that everyone felt welcome. And Florence, with her meticulous attention to detail, handled the logistics, ensuring that everything ran smoothly.
The reunion was a resounding success, a testament to the power of family bonds and the enduring legacy of Dean and Neva Humpherys. Children played together, cousins reminisced about old times, and siblings shared stories about their lives. Dean and Neva, their faces beaming with pride, watched as their family came together, their hearts filled with joy.
The 2021 edition of *The Humpherys Herald* offered a snapshot of Nadean’s life, a life marked by resilience and a deep connection to family. Living in St. George, Utah, she found joy in her community and cherished visits from her loved ones. She spoke of kidney stone removals and trips to temples, her words infused with her trademark humor and unwavering faith.
The success of the first reunion sparked a desire to make it an annual event. The Humpherys family, scattered across the country, needed a way to stay connected, to share their lives, and to celebrate their shared heritage. And so, the annual Dean and Neva Humpherys Family Reunion became a tradition, a cornerstone of the family's identity.
Over the years, the reunions evolved, taking on different forms and locations, reflecting the changing dynamics of the family. Some years, the reunions were held in Etna, Wyoming, a return to their roots. Other years, they ventured further afield, exploring new destinations and creating new memories.
In 1983, Newell took the reins, hosting the reunion along the banks of the Greys River, a place of profound significance to the Humpherys family. The Greys River, a majestic waterway that winds through the Wyoming wilderness, had always been a source of recreation and sustenance for the Humpherys family. Fishing, hunting, and camping along its banks were cherished pastimes, providing opportunities to escape the drudgery of daily life and connect with the natural world.
In 1984, Gerald hosted the reunion in Etna and Astoria, a blend of familiar landscapes and new experiences. Gerald, known for his adventurous spirit and his love for the outdoors, brought a unique energy to the event, organizing hikes, fishing trips, and campfire sing-alongs.
In 1985, Ray, with his infectious enthusiasm and love for life, took charge of the reunion in Etna. Ray, a natural storyteller, filled the reunion with laughter and shared memories, reminding everyone of the importance of cherishing each moment.
In 1986, Jan, Curt, and Chelsea organized the reunion in Billings, Montana, a celebration of baptisms and family milestones. The event, held in conjunction with the baptisms of Curt and Chelsea, brought together family members from far and wide, united by their shared faith and their love for one another.
In 1987, Robert hosted the reunion in Jackson Hole, Wyoming, a breathtaking destination that showcased the beauty of the American West. Robert, with his adventurous spirit and his love for the outdoors, organized hikes, fishing trips, and campfire gatherings, creating memories that would last a lifetime.
In 1988, Florence took on the task of organizing the reunion along the Greys River, a return to the familiar landscapes of their childhood. Florence, with her warm heart and her ability to connect with people, created a welcoming atmosphere, ensuring that everyone felt included and valued.
In 1989, Ken hosted the reunion in Etna, a celebration of family and community. Ken, known for his strong work ethic and his commitment to his values, organized activities that emphasized teamwork, cooperation, and the importance of giving back to the community.
In 1990, Sharon organized the reunion in McCoy Creek, a chance to explore new landscapes and create new memories. Sharon, with her adventurous spirit and her love for the outdoors, led hikes, organized games, and shared stories around the campfire.
In 1991, Nadean, with her infectious enthusiasm and knack for organization, took charge of the reunion in Etna and Afton, a celebration of family and faith. Nadean, with her quick wit and her ability to find humor in the everyday, filled the reunion with laughter and joy.
In 1992, Newell, ever the thoughtful son, organized the reunion in Etna, a tribute to Dean and Neva and their enduring legacy. Newell, with his meticulous attention to detail and his warm, personal tone, created a reunion that was both meaningful and memorable.
In 1993, Gerald, with his adventurous spirit and his love for the outdoors, hosted the reunion in Etna and Star Valley Ranch, a celebration of nature and family. Gerald, known for his storytelling abilities, filled the reunion with tales of his adventures, captivating young and old alike.
In 1994, Nadean, Sharon, and Florence once again joined forces to organize a surprise 80th birthday party for Neva, a testament to their love and admiration for their mother. The event, held at the Etna church, brought together family members from far and wide, united by their shared affection for Neva.
As the years passed, the reunions continued to evolve, reflecting the changing times and the growing family. They were a time for laughter, for tears, for sharing stories, and for creating new memories. They were a time to honor Dean and Neva and to reaffirm the values that had shaped their family.
"Such is life," Dean would often say, a phrase that had become a mantra for the Humpherys family. It was a reminder to accept the challenges and celebrate the joys that life inevitably brings, to find strength in faith, and to cherish the love of family.
And as the Humpherys family looked to the future, they knew that the annual reunion would continue to serve as a vital link, connecting generations and preserving their shared heritage. It was a testament to the power of family bonds, a reminder that even in the face of adversity, love and loyalty would always prevail.
In 2017, as Kim prepared for the next reunion, she wrote, “37 Annual Reunions and 27 Years of Humpherys' Family Newsletters…Traditions Continue…” In a world of constant change, the Humpherys family found solace and strength in their traditions, in their shared history, and in their unwavering love for each other.
Chapter 8: The Humpherys Herald: A Chronicle of Lives and Legacies
# The Humpherys Herald: A Chronicle of Lives and Legacies
"Such is life," Dean would often say, a phrase that had become a mantra for the Humpherys family. It was a reminder to accept the challenges and celebrate the joys that life inevitably brings, to find strength in faith, and to cherish the love of family.
And as the Humpherys family looked to the future, they knew that the annual reunion would continue to serve as a vital link, connecting generations and preserving their shared heritage. It was a testament to the power of family bonds, a reminder that even in the face of adversity, love and loyalty would always prevail.
In 2017, as Kim prepared for the next reunion, she wrote, “37 Annual Reunions and 27 Years of Humpherys' Family Newsletters…Traditions Continue…” In a world of constant change, the Humpherys family found solace and strength in their traditions, in their shared history, and in their unwavering love for each other.
But traditions, like rivers, require a source, a wellspring from which they flow. And for the Humpherys family, that source, in the realm of shared stories and chronicled lives, was *The Humpherys Herald*.
The late 1980s in America were a time of both technological advancement and lingering Cold War anxieties. While the world marveled at the rise of personal computers and the burgeoning internet, the threat of nuclear conflict still cast a long shadow. The AIDS epidemic continued to spread, prompting both fear and a growing awareness of the need for compassion and understanding. It was a time of rapid change and uncertainty, a world that felt both exhilarating and unsettling.
Yet, in the small town of Etna, Wyoming, the Humpherys family found solace and connection in the simple act of sharing their stories. They had always been a close-knit clan, bound together by blood, faith, and a shared love for the land. But as the family grew and its members scattered across the country, maintaining those bonds became increasingly challenging.
The idea for a family newsletter had been brewing for some time, a way to bridge the miles and keep everyone informed about the latest happenings. But it wasn't until 1988 that the vision finally became a reality, thanks to the editorial efforts of Newell Humpherys.
Newell, a thoughtful and introspective man with a keen eye for detail, was the perfect choice to spearhead the project. He possessed a deep appreciation for family history and a genuine desire to connect with his relatives, near and far. With his trusty typewriter and a stack of paper, he set about gathering news and anecdotes from across the Humpherys diaspora, weaving together a tapestry of triumphs and tribulations, milestones and everyday moments.
The first edition of *The Humpherys Herald* was a modest affair, a simple compilation of typed and photocopied pages. But it was more than just a newsletter; it was a lifeline, a tangible link to a shared past and a hopeful future. In the pre-internet era, when long-distance phone calls were expensive and infrequent, and email was still a distant dream for most, the newsletter became a vital means of communication, a way to stay connected and celebrate the bonds of kinship.
The early editions, meticulously crafted by Newell, reflected the values and priorities of the Humpherys family. They chronicled the births of new babies, the graduations of young adults, and the achievements of family members in various fields. They also acknowledged the challenges and hardships that inevitably arose, from illnesses and job losses to the everyday struggles of raising families in a changing world.
But the newsletters were more than just a recitation of facts; they were a celebration of life, a testament to the enduring power of love and laughter. Newell, with his warm and personal writing style, had a knack for capturing the essence of each family member, painting vivid portraits of their joys and sorrows, their hopes and dreams.
As the years passed, *The Humpherys Herald* evolved, reflecting the changing times and the growing family. The torch of editorship was passed from one member to another, each bringing their own unique perspective and voice to the project. Ray, Kelly, Jim, Nadean, Sherrie, Mary Lynn, Linda, Stephanie, Pam, Lisa, Michelle, Nicole, Laurie, Hilary, Ryan, Josh, Curt, and Kim all took their turn at the helm, each contributing to the growing chronicle of the Humpherys family.
In 1995, Ray took over the editorial duties, infusing the newsletter with his own unique perspective and voice. The mid-1990s were a time of technological revolution, with the internet rapidly transforming the way people communicated, worked, and lived. While the Humpherys family may not have been on the cutting edge of this digital revolution, they were certainly aware of its potential, and they embraced new technologies as they became available.
Kelly stepped up in 1996, followed by Jim in 1997, Nadean in 1998, and Sherrie in 1999. Each editor brought their own style and personality, further enriching the tapestry of the family history. As the 20th century drew to a close, the Humpherys family stood poised on the brink of a new millennium, ready to face whatever challenges and opportunities lay ahead.
As the calendar turned to 2000, Mary Lynn assumed the editorial mantle, ushering *The Humpherys Herald* into a new era. The dawn of the new millennium was a time of both excitement and trepidation. The Y2K scare had gripped the world with fear of widespread computer malfunctions, but as the clocks ticked over to January 1, 2000, the anticipated chaos failed to materialize. Instead, the world embraced the new century with a sense of optimism and possibility.
Linda took over in 2001, followed by Stephanie in 2002, and Pam in 2003, each editor contributing their unique voice to the ongoing family saga. The early 2000s were marked by the September 11th terrorist attacks, which shook the nation to its core and ushered in a new era of heightened security and geopolitical tension. Yet, even in the face of such tragedy, the Humpherys family found strength in their shared values, their faith, and their unwavering commitment to one another.
Lisa took over the newsletter in 2006, followed by Michelle in 2008, Mary Lynn again in 2009, and Nicole in 2010. These were years of economic turmoil, with the financial crisis of 2008 sending shockwaves through the global economy. Yet, amidst these challenges, the Humpherys family remained resilient, supporting each other through job losses, foreclosures, and other hardships.
The newsletters from this period reflect the anxieties and uncertainties of the time, but they also showcase the family's unwavering spirit and their ability to find joy in the midst of adversity. They tell of weddings and births, graduations and new careers, and the everyday moments that made life worth living.
In 2016, as Kim took over the editing duties with the help of her daughter Mandy, the *Herald* had become a cherished tradition, a tangible link to their shared heritage. As the world grappled with political upheaval and social change, the newsletter provided a sense of continuity, a reminder of the enduring power of family bonds.
Kim’s edition, filled with heartfelt anecdotes and family photos, captured the essence of the Humpherys spirit. She wrote of the loss of Bob, Neva's husband, a man who had become an integral part of the family. She recalled a trip to Wyoming with Mandy, Chris, Sawyer, and Sophia, where they played softball with Neva. Bryan had a successful hunting year, and Kim enjoyed barrel racing with Mandy.
Mandy and Chris, writing together in 2016, highlighted Sawyer and Sophia’s preschool experience, their summer of horses, and their visit to Wyoming with Grandma Sharon, Grandpa Bob, and Aunt Pam.
Pam and Ray, in their 2016 newsletter, shared their love for their jobs, fishing, and spending time with family. They looked forward to Kim and Bryan’s visit for Thanksgiving.
Kelly and Sandra, Brooke, Tanner and Teesha, DeAna and Brian, Mary Lynn and Gary, Barry and Alisa, Florence and Larry, Jan and John, Mikki Ann, Curt and Jerri, Chelsea and Jason, Marisela and Neva, Ray and Becky, Lisa and Jim, Michelle and Ben, Stephanie and Drew, Melanie and Elliot, Ryan and Natalie, Gerald and Tena, Linda and Nathan, Trae and Marley, Shawn and Hilary, Shane and Nicole, Newell and Sally, CJ and Laurie, and Camille and Lance, all shared their stories, weaving a tapestry of lives connected by blood, love, and a shared sense of belonging.
Even in 2019, as editor Tim noted in the newsletter, several family members were still living in Star Valley, while the rest lived far and wide. The power of family, however, was still strong.
As the years passed, the newsletter evolved from a simple collection of family news into a rich tapestry of shared experiences, personal reflections, and enduring values. It became a repository of family history, a testament to the bonds that held them together, and a source of strength and inspiration in times of both joy and sorrow.
And so, as the story of the Humpherys family neared its conclusion, the question lingered: what was next? How would the legacy of Thomas and Mary Sudbury Humpherys, Dean and Neva Clark Humpherys, and all those who followed, continue to resonate in the lives of generations yet to come?
The answer, it seemed, lay not in grand pronouncements or sweeping gestures, but in the simple, enduring acts of remembrance, connection, and love that had always defined the family. It lay in the annual reunions, where laughter and tears mingled freely, and in the pages of *The Humpherys Herald*, where the stories of their lives were preserved for posterity.
In 2020, as the world was plunged into turmoil by the COVID-19 pandemic, the Humpherys family, like countless others, faced unprecedented challenges. The annual family reunion, a cherished tradition for nearly four decades, was in jeopardy. Travel restrictions, social distancing guidelines, and concerns for the health and safety of loved ones made it impossible to gather in person.
Newell took on the role of editor for the 30th edition of the Humpherys Herald, a testament to his enduring commitment to family and tradition. The theme of the newsletter was "Special Baby Pictures Edition," a celebration of new life and a reminder of the enduring power of family bonds.
The newsletter entries from 2020 reflected the anxieties and uncertainties of the time, but they also showcased the family's resilience and their ability to find joy in the midst of adversity. They told of graduations and new careers, of virtual gatherings and heartfelt messages, and of the unwavering love that bound them together, even when they were physically apart.
And so, as the sun set over the mountains of Etna, Wyoming, the echoes of laughter, the whispers of stories, and the warmth of shared memories lingered in the air. The Humpherys family, a tapestry woven together by time and circumstance, remained united, their circle unbroken, their legacy secure.
The Humpherys Herald, a chronicle of lives and legacies, stood as a testament to the enduring power of family bonds, a reminder that even in the face of adversity, love and loyalty would always prevail. The story of the Humpherys family, a story of faith, resilience, and unwavering commitment to one another, would continue to inspire and guide generations to come.
Chapter 9: Robert: An Adventurer's Spirit, Cut Too Short
# Robert: An Adventurer's Spirit, Cut Too Short
The Humpherys Herald, a chronicle of lives and legacies, stood as a testament to the enduring power of family bonds, a reminder that even in the face of adversity, love and loyalty would always prevail. The story of the Humpherys family, a story of faith, resilience, and unwavering commitment to one another, would continue to inspire and guide generations to come. But as the sun set on the 20th century and the family ventured into the new millennium, they could not have imagined the challenges and heartache that lay ahead. The newsletters, once a simple chronicle of births and marriages, would soon become a testament to their strength in the face of unimaginable loss, a reminder that even in the darkest of times, the bonds of family could never be broken.
In the tapestry of the Humpherys family, each thread represented a life, a story, a unique contribution to the whole. And among those threads, one shone with a particular vibrancy, a spirit of adventure and a love for the outdoors that defined him: Robert Humpherys.
Robert, a son of Dean and Neva, was a man who lived life to the fullest, embracing every opportunity for exploration and discovery. Born into the rugged landscape of Wyoming, he developed a deep appreciation for the natural world, a passion that would shape his life and inspire those around him.
In the early 1980s, as Ronald Reagan's conservative policies reshaped the American landscape and the Cold War tensions simmered beneath the surface, Robert was forging his own path, carving out a life that reflected his values and his love for adventure. He was a man of action, a man who preferred to be out in the world, experiencing life firsthand, rather than observing it from the sidelines.
The family newsletters, those annual chronicles of the Humpherys clan, offer glimpses into Robert's adventurous spirit. In 1987, he hosted the annual family reunion in Jackson Hole, Wyoming, a testament to his love for the outdoors and his desire to share that passion with his family. The reunions, held amidst the breathtaking scenery of the Teton Mountains, were a chance to reconnect with loved ones, to share stories, and to celebrate their shared heritage. They were also an opportunity for Robert to showcase his skills as a host, his ability to create a welcoming and memorable experience for all.
As the years passed, Robert continued to embrace new adventures, exploring the vast wilderness of Wyoming and beyond. He was a skilled hunter, a seasoned fisherman, and an avid hiker, always seeking new challenges and new experiences. He instilled in his children a deep appreciation for nature, teaching them the importance of conservation and the responsibility of stewardship.
In 1995, Robert took on the role of editor for The Humpherys Herald, infusing the newsletter with his own unique perspective and voice. The mid-1990s were a time of rapid technological change, with the internet transforming the way people communicated and lived. Yet, Robert remained grounded in the values of family, faith, and a love for the outdoors, using the newsletter as a platform to share his passions and connect with loved ones.
The newsletters also revealed Robert's commitment to his community. He was actively involved in local organizations, volunteering his time and resources to support causes he believed in. He was a man of integrity, a man who believed in giving back to the world and making a positive difference in the lives of others.
But as the years passed, a shadow began to creep into Robert's life. In 2016, Kim, his niece, reflected on the loss of Bob, a father figure to her, and the lessons she learned from his life and death. She recalled a trip to Wyoming with Mandy, Chris, Sawyer, and Sophia, where they played softball with Neva. Robert's health began to decline, and he faced his challenges with courage and grace.
In 2018, as the Humpherys family prepared for another summer of reunions and celebrations, tragedy struck. Robert disappeared during a backpacking trip in the Uintah Mountains of Utah, a place he knew and loved. The news sent shockwaves through the family, shattering their sense of peace and security.
A massive search effort was launched, involving hundreds of volunteers, law enforcement officials, and family members. They scoured the trails, combed the forests, and searched the canyons, driven by a fierce determination to bring Robert home. But as the days passed, hope began to dwindle, replaced by a gnawing sense of dread.
Newell, Robert's brother, drove to Utah to join the search, along with Damien, Camille, Lance, Gerald, Shawn, Shane, Trey, Carter, most of Ray's family, and hundreds of volunteers. The family rallied, setting up a command center, coordinating search efforts, and providing support to the searchers. They plastered the area with flyers, contacted local media outlets, and used social media to spread the word. The community responded with an outpouring of support, providing food, supplies, and manpower.
The search continued for days, testing the limits of human endurance and resilience. The family clung to hope, praying for a miracle, but as the days turned into nights, their hearts grew heavy with grief.
On July 27th, the search came to an end. Robert's body was found about a mile and a half from the campsite, in an area that had been previously overlooked due to the treacherous terrain. The news was met with a collective gasp of sorrow, a wave of grief that washed over the entire Humpherys family.
The circumstances surrounding Robert's death remained shrouded in mystery. There was no clear explanation for his disappearance, no obvious cause of death. The unanswered questions only added to the family's grief, leaving them with a lingering sense of bewilderment and a profound sense of loss.
The 2019 Humpherys Herald, compiled by Tim, became a memorial to Robert, a testament to his life and his impact on those around him. Family members shared their memories of Robert, celebrating his adventurous spirit, his love for the outdoors, and his unwavering commitment to his family. They spoke of his kindness, his generosity, and his ability to make everyone feel loved and valued.
Lisa, in her contribution to the newsletter, wrote of the "amazing" legacy Robert had left behind, a legacy of kindness, generosity, and an unwavering commitment to family. She also spoke of the comfort she found in the gospel, the knowledge that families are eternal and that they would one day be reunited with Robert.
Michelle, Robert's daughter, echoed Lisa's sentiments, expressing her gratitude for the outpouring of love and support the family had received. She spoke of the difficulty of accepting Robert's death, the pain of knowing that she would no longer be able to talk to him, to seek his advice, or to share his laughter.
Becky, Robert's wife, found solace in her faith and the knowledge that Robert had completed his earthly journey and was now at peace. She also expressed her gratitude for the support she had received from family and friends, the countless acts of kindness that had helped her through the darkest days of her life.
Even in the midst of their grief, the Humpherys family found ways to celebrate life, to honor Robert's memory, and to keep his spirit alive. Lisa organized a Labor Day weekend gathering, a tradition Robert had always cherished, and the family came together to share stories, to laugh, and to remember the good times.
The newsletters, a testament to their shared heritage, served as a reminder of the importance of preserving their values for the future. They knew that the legacy of Dean and Neva would live on, not just in their memories, but in the actions of their children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.
As the world grappled with uncertainty, the homestead in Etna served as a powerful reminder of the importance of place, of the enduring power of family, and of the values that had sustained the Humpherys family through generations. It was a place for memories, a place to connect with the past, and a place to find hope for the future.
In the years that followed Robert’s passing, the family continued to find ways to honor his memory. They shared stories of his adventures, his kindness, and his unwavering love for his family. They kept his spirit alive through their own actions, embracing new challenges, exploring the outdoors, and cherishing the bonds that tied them together.
The "Humpherys Herald," a testament to their shared heritage, served as a reminder of the importance of preserving their values for the future. They knew that the legacy of Dean and Neva would live on, not just in their memories, but in the actions of their children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.
And so, as the sun set over the mountains of Etna, Wyoming, the echoes of laughter, the whispers of stories, and the warmth of shared memories lingered in the air. The Humpherys family, a tapestry woven together by time and circumstance, remained united, their circle unbroken, their legacy secure.
The story of Robert Humpherys, an adventurer's spirit cut too short, became a poignant reminder of the fragility of life and the enduring power of love. His memory would continue to inspire the Humpherys family, a testament to the values that had shaped their heritage and the importance of carrying on his legacy of kindness, compassion, and unwavering commitment to family.
As the narrative shifts, the focus will move to Ray, another son of Dean and Neva, whose disappearance in the Uintah Mountains would cast a long shadow over the family, testing their resilience and their faith in the face of unimaginable loss.
Chapter 10: A Mountain's Shadow: The Disappearance of Ray
# A Mountain's Shadow: The Disappearance of Ray
As the echoes of laughter and memories from past reunions faded, the Humpherys family, like a sturdy tree weathered by countless storms, stood resilient. The "Humpherys Herald," a chronicle of their lives, documented the joys and sorrows, the milestones and heartaches that shaped their shared history. But the late summer of 2018 would bring a tragedy that would test their strength in ways they could never have imagined.
The year began with a sense of normalcy, a familiar rhythm of work, family, and community. The nation, under the leadership of President Donald Trump, was grappling with political polarization and social unrest. The rise of social media and the 24-hour news cycle amplified divisions, creating echo chambers of opinion and fueling partisan animosity. Yet, in the small towns and rural communities where many Humpherys family members resided, life moved at a different pace, grounded in traditional values and a deep sense of connection to the land.
The annual family reunion, a cherished tradition for nearly four decades, was scheduled to take place in Afton, Wyoming, a town nestled in the Star Valley, a place where the Humpherys family had deep roots. Nadean, ever the organizer, had taken on the task of planning the event, envisioning a celebration of family, faith, and shared memories. But fate, as it often does, had other plans.
In mid-July, as preparations for the reunion were underway, tragedy struck. Ray Humpherys, a beloved son, brother, husband, and father, went missing during a backpacking trip in the Uintah Mountains of Utah. The news sent shockwaves through the family, shattering the sense of peace and anticipation that had been building in anticipation of the reunion.
Ray, an avid outdoorsman with a deep love for the Wyoming wilderness, had embarked on the trip with his family, seeking solace and adventure in the rugged beauty of the mountains. But somewhere along the trail, he had become separated from his group, vanishing into the vast expanse of the Uintahs.
The Uintah Mountains, a majestic range stretching across northeastern Utah, were a place Ray knew well. He had spent countless hours exploring its trails, fishing in its streams, and camping under its star-studded skies. But the mountains could also be unforgiving, their rugged terrain and unpredictable weather posing a constant threat to even the most experienced outdoorsmen.
As news of Ray's disappearance spread, the Humpherys family rallied, their bonds of kinship forged in the crucible of shared history and unwavering support. Newell, ever the steadfast brother, drove to Utah to join the search, along with other family members, friends, and volunteers. They scoured the trails, combed the forests, and searched the canyons, driven by a fierce determination to bring Ray home.
The search was hampered by the rugged terrain, the dense forests, and the unpredictable weather. The family divided into search parties, covering as much ground as possible, fueled by adrenaline and a desperate hope. They plastered the area with flyers, contacted local media outlets, and used social media to spread the word. The community responded with an outpouring of support, providing food, supplies, and manpower.
As the search dragged on, the family's hope began to dwindle, replaced by a gnawing sense of dread. The unanswered questions surrounding Ray's disappearance fueled their anxiety, leaving them with a lingering sense of bewilderment and a profound sense of loss.
In Nevada City, California, Sally Humpherys, Newell's wife, waited anxiously for news, her heart heavy with worry and her thoughts consumed by memories of her brother-in-law. She knew Ray loved family reunions, and the thought of him missing from their midst was almost unbearable.
On July 27th, the search came to an end. Ray's body was found about a mile and a half from the campsite, in an area that had been previously overlooked due to the treacherous terrain. The news was met with a collective gasp of sorrow, a wave of grief that washed over the entire Humpherys family.
"This has been one of the most heart wrenching, painful, hard things I have ever been through to lose my dear brother, Ray," Newell wrote. "Especially the way it happened—and all the frustration of not being able to find him with all the searching and effort."
The circumstances surrounding Ray's death remained shrouded in mystery. There was no clear explanation for his disappearance, no obvious cause of death. The unanswered questions only added to the family's grief, leaving them with a lingering sense of bewilderment and a profound sense of loss.
"I am not the only one who feels this way," Newell confessed. "My other siblings feel the same way, and it has been such a traumatic thing to go through for all of us, especially, Becky and Ray's children and family."
In the wake of Ray's death, the Humpherys family drew strength from their shared faith, their love for each other, and the memories of the man they had lost. They gathered for a two-day viewing and funeral, which was attended by almost 2,000 people, a testament to the impact Ray had on the lives of those around him.
Lisa, in her contribution to the newsletter, wrote of the "amazing" legacy Ray had left behind, a legacy of kindness, generosity, and an unwavering commitment to family. She also spoke of the comfort she found in the gospel, the knowledge that families are eternal and that they would one day be reunited with Ray.
Michelle, Ray's daughter, echoed Lisa's sentiments, expressing her gratitude for the outpouring of love and support the family had received. She spoke of the difficulty of accepting Ray's death, the pain of knowing that she would no longer be able to talk to him, to seek his advice, or to share his laughter.
"The hardest things for me is that I just can't talk to him anymore," Michelle wrote, her words raw with emotion. "It still doesn't seem real and it's just so upsetting how it happened."
Becky, Ray's wife, found solace in her faith and the knowledge that Ray had completed his earthly journey and was now at peace. She also expressed her gratitude for the support she had received from family and friends, the countless acts of kindness that had helped her through the darkest days of her life.
"There was such an outpouring of love and support from family and people we didn't even know," Becky wrote. "I have learned we should live life fully, without regrets, and love as much as possible."
Even in the midst of their grief, the Humpherys family found ways to celebrate life, to honor Ray's memory, and to keep his spirit alive. Lisa organized a Labor Day weekend gathering, a tradition Ray had always cherished, and the family came together to share stories, to laugh, and to remember the good times.
The "Humpherys Herald" became a vehicle for sharing memories of Ray, for celebrating his life, and for offering comfort and support to those who were grieving. It was a testament to the enduring power of family, the ability to find strength in shared sorrow, and the unwavering commitment to honoring the legacy of those who had come before.
The 2018 newsletter was dedicated to the memory of Robert Humpherys. In 2018, Michelle Burnett struggled to put her feelings into words. "We had so many of you and all of your hard work in the search and all the love you showed. Thank you!" she wrote. "No doubt my dad was loved by so many, especially his family members. It’s hard to even know what to say."
She went on to say that her dad was "such an amazing example to all of us of kindness and Christ-like love, maybe he got to choose the setting of his last days on earth. He loved the Uintah Mountains more than anyone. I don’t know."
The newsletter entries, year after year, echoed the sentiment: Robert was missed, his absence deeply felt. But his memory lived on, woven into the fabric of the family's shared history.
The Afton reunion, while still a time of joyful connection, was tinged with a profound sense of loss. Ray's absence was felt keenly, his laughter and adventurous spirit missed by all. Yet, the family found solace in their shared memories, in the stories they told, and in the knowledge that Ray's spirit would forever be a part of their family.
As the months passed, the Humpherys family continued to navigate the complexities of life, carrying Ray's memory with them, finding strength in their shared heritage, and cherishing the bonds that held them together. They had faced tragedy before, and they knew that they would face it again. But they also knew that they were not alone, that they had each other, and that the love and support of their family would always be there to guide them through the darkest of times.
His absence was felt daily. His memory was cherished always. The mystery of his passing remained, a poignant reminder of life's fragility and the enduring power of love. The backpack remained, a symbol of adventure, exploration, and the unanswered questions that would forever linger in the hearts of those who loved him.
Chapter 11: Sharon's Strength: Kim's Journey and Bryan's Battle
# Sharon's Strength: Kim's Journey and Bryan's Battle
As the months passed, the Humpherys family continued to navigate the complexities of life, carrying Ray's memory with them, finding strength in their shared heritage, and cherishing the bonds that held them together. They had faced tragedy before, and they knew that they would face it again. But they also knew that they were not alone, that they had each other, and that the love and support of their family would always be there to guide them through the darkest of times.
His absence was felt daily. His memory was cherished always. The mystery of his passing remained, a poignant reminder of life's fragility and the enduring power of love. The backpack remained, a symbol of adventure, exploration, and the unanswered questions that would forever linger in the hearts of those who loved him.
But life, ever relentless, moved forward. The sun continued to rise over the Wyoming landscape, casting its golden light on new beginnings and unforeseen challenges. And for Sharon Humpherys, a new chapter was about to unfold, a chapter marked by both profound love and unimaginable hardship.
Sharon, a daughter of Dean and Neva, possessed a quiet strength that belied her gentle demeanor. She had inherited her mother's meticulous nature and her father's unwavering compassion, qualities that would serve her well in the years to come. Her life, like that of her siblings, had been shaped by the values of faith, family, and hard work, a legacy passed down through generations.
In the tapestry of the Humpherys family, Sharon's thread was interwoven with that of her daughter, Kim, now known as Kimberly Ann, a vibrant and spirited woman with a passion for barrel racing and a deep love for her family. Kim, with her infectious laughter and unwavering determination, embodied the resilience that had always defined the Humpherys clan.
The year 2017, as chronicled in the family newsletter, found Kim living a life filled with purpose and passion. She was working with special needs children, a calling that brought her immense satisfaction and allowed her to make a positive impact on the lives of others. She was also pursuing her love for horses, competing in barrel races across the region and honing her skills as a rider.
But as the year progressed, a new challenge emerged, a threat that would test Kim's strength and resilience in ways she could never have imagined. Her husband, Bryan, a man known for his love of hunting and his unwavering support for Kim's dreams, fell ill.
The diagnosis was swift and devastating: West Nile Virus, which had progressed to meningitis, causing swelling of the brain. In a matter of days, Bryan went from a picture of health to a gravely ill patient, his life hanging in the balance.
Kim's world was shattered. The man she loved, her partner in life, was fighting for his very existence. The fear and uncertainty were overwhelming, but Kim refused to succumb to despair. She drew upon her inner strength, her unwavering faith, and the support of her family to face this new challenge head-on.
The newsletters from this period offer a glimpse into the harrowing journey that Kim and Bryan embarked upon. They speak of long days and sleepless nights in the hospital, of agonizing decisions and moments of profound hope. They also reveal the incredible outpouring of love and support from the Humpherys family, who rallied around Kim and Bryan, offering prayers, encouragement, and practical assistance.
As Sharon recounted in her 2021 newsletter, "Shortly after that Bryan got sick. Many of you may have followed my posts during this time so I'll try not to repeat too much. Bryan was diagnosed with West Nile Virus, which brought on meningitis (swelling of the brain) In a matter of 2 days he went from perfectly healthy to gravely ill. He spent 7 weeks in the hospital. The first 2 weeks he could not move or talk. We almost lost him."
Mandy, Kim's daughter, stepped up to provide invaluable support, becoming a lifeline for her mother during this difficult time. She helped care for Bryan, managed the horses, and provided emotional support to Kim, who was struggling to cope with the overwhelming stress.
Kim, in her own words, described the experience as a testament to the goodness of Heavenly Father. "Almost every day I could feel his direction and guidance," she wrote. "It was hard. My Mandy was a lifeline for me. Bryan is still doing physical therapy and that will continue for a while. He is a walking miracle. We have a ways to go yet, but we are working thru it together and that is a blessing."
The family newsletters also reveal the impact of Bryan's illness on Kim's career. She had recently been hired as a Paraprofessional working with special needs kids, a job she loved and felt called to do. But when Bryan fell ill, she made the difficult decision to quit her job to focus on his care.
"I quit my job as a para to take care of Bryan and the horses," she explained. "My testimony thru all of this has been the goodness of our Heavenly Father."
The decision to prioritize family over career was a reflection of the values that had been instilled in Kim from a young age. She understood the importance of being there for those you love, of putting their needs before your own, and of making sacrifices for the greater good.
As Bryan slowly recovered, Kim found solace and purpose in caring for the horses. "Caring for the horses has been a life saver for me," she wrote. "It has kept me out of my own head and has given me a purpose to keep going. I'm forever thankful that I fell hard for a little horse named Babe many years ago. That addiction has only grown stronger."
The horses, with their gentle nature and unwavering loyalty, provided Kim with a much-needed escape from the stresses of Bryan's illness. They were a source of comfort, companionship, and a reminder of the beauty and resilience of life.
The family newsletters also highlight Kim's accomplishments as a barrel racer. Despite the challenges she faced, she continued to compete, finding strength and inspiration in the sport she loved. In May, she qualified to run in the State NBHA finals in Rapid City, a testament to her skill and determination.
"The highlight of this race for me was it was the last time I raced Hollie," she wrote. "We won a buckle at this finals. She and I have won lots of cool stuff over the years and some money, but we had never won a buckle together. To win it at the state finals was special for me."
The victory was particularly meaningful because it was shared with her daughter, Sophia, who also competed in the youth division. "Sophia also ran Hollie in the youth division and did amazing," Kim wrote. "She won some money and also would have won a buckle, but she tipped in the second race."
Kim's pride in Sophia's accomplishments was evident in every word. She recognized her daughter's talent and dedication, and she was grateful for the opportunity to share her love for horses with the next generation.
The story of Sharon, Kim, and Bryan is a testament to the enduring power of love, commitment, and resilience. It is a story of facing adversity with courage and grace, of finding strength in family and faith, and of cherishing the moments that make life meaningful.
As the Humpherys family continued to navigate the complexities of life, they drew strength from their shared heritage, their unwavering values, and the enduring bonds that tied them together. They had faced tragedy before, and they knew that they would face it again. But they also knew that they were not alone, that they had each other, and that the love and support of their family would always be there to guide them through the darkest of times.
As the sun set over the Wyoming landscape, casting long shadows across the valley, the story of Sharon, Kim, and Bryan served as a reminder that even in the midst of hardship, hope can endure, and love can triumph. Their journey, etched in the annals of the Humpherys family history, would continue to inspire and guide generations to come.
Chapter 12: Ken's Dreams: Star Valley and Beyond
# Ken's Dreams: Star Valley and Beyond
The story of Sharon, Kim, and Bryan is a testament to the enduring power of love, commitment, and resilience. It is a story of facing adversity with courage and grace, of finding strength in family and faith, and of cherishing the moments that make life meaningful.
As the Humpherys family continued to navigate the complexities of life, they drew strength from their shared heritage, their unwavering values, and the enduring bonds that tied them together. They had faced tragedy before, and they knew that they would face it again. But they also knew that they were not alone, that they had each other, and that the love and support of their family would always be there to guide them through the darkest of times.
As the sun set over the Wyoming landscape, casting long shadows across the valley, the story of Sharon, Kim, and Bryan served as a reminder that even in the midst of hardship, hope can endure, and love can triumph. Their journey, etched in the annals of the Humpherys family history, would continue to inspire and guide generations to come.
While the challenges of Sharon and Kim were deeply personal, the Humpherys family was a sprawling network, and each member carried their own burdens and dreams. The story now turns to Ken, another son of Dean and Neva, whose life journey took him from the familiar embrace of Star Valley to the sun-baked landscapes of Arizona and back again, a testament to his enduring love for the outdoors, his unwavering faith, and the deep roots he maintained in the Humpherys clan.
Ken, born into the heart of the Humpherys family, inherited the pioneering spirit of his ancestors and the values instilled by Dean and Neva. The rugged landscape of Wyoming shaped his character, instilling in him a deep appreciation for nature, a strong work ethic, and a resilient spirit. But Ken was also a dreamer, a man who yearned to explore the world beyond the familiar boundaries of Star Valley.
The post-World War II era, in which Ken came of age, was a time of both optimism and anxiety in America. The nation was experiencing unprecedented economic prosperity, but the Cold War cast a long shadow, and the threat of nuclear annihilation loomed large. The Civil Rights Movement was gaining momentum, challenging long-held social norms and sparking a national debate about equality and justice. Ken, like many young people of his generation, was caught between the allure of the American dream and the unsettling realities of a rapidly changing world.
The newsletters, those annual chronicles of the Humpherys family, offer glimpses into Ken's life, revealing his adventurous spirit, his health challenges, and his enduring love for his family. While the details are often fragmented, they paint a portrait of a man who embraced life with gusto, always seeking new experiences and never losing sight of his roots.
The early editions of *The Humpherys Herald* hint at Ken's love for the outdoors, his passion for hunting and fishing, and his deep connection to the Wyoming landscape. He was a skilled horseman, a marksman, and a keen observer of nature, traits that he undoubtedly inherited from his father, Dean.
As Ken grew older, he felt the pull of the wider world. He ventured beyond the familiar boundaries of Star Valley, seeking new opportunities and experiences. He spent time in Arizona, drawn by the warm climate and the promise of a different kind of life. But even as he explored new horizons, he never forgot his roots, always returning to Star Valley to reconnect with his family and the land that shaped him.
The newsletters also reveal Ken's health challenges, a recurring theme in his life. He battled pneumonia, congestive heart failure, and kidney stones, enduring hospital stays and medical procedures with remarkable fortitude. Yet, even in the face of these challenges, he never lost his sense of humor or his zest for life.
In 2016, Nadean shared a humorous anecdote about Ken's health struggles, writing, "I got a real fun letter from Ken and Myrna the other day and I sure would enjoy hearing from more of you." Her words, while lighthearted, acknowledged the challenges Ken faced and the importance of family support in overcoming adversity.
The family newsletters also document Ken's missionary work, a testament to his unwavering faith and his desire to serve others. The details of his missionary service are scarce, but the newsletters hint at the profound impact it had on his life, instilling in him a deeper sense of purpose and a renewed commitment to his beliefs.
Ken married Tawny, and they had children: Kelly, Sherrie, DeAna, Mary Lynn, and Barry. Later, Ken married Myrna, and together they continued to build a life rooted in faith, family, and service.
The newsletters offer glimpses into the lives of Ken's children, showcasing their achievements, their challenges, and their own unique personalities. Kelly, for instance, suffered a heart attack in December 2021 and had to have a titanium rod and screws put in his femur after falling while ice skating. Sherrie lived in Alaska and was visited by Brian, DeAna, and Savannah. DeAna opened her own massage studio. Mary Lynn sadly passed away before 2021. Barry was called into the bishopric in their ward in Mandeville, Louisiana.
These snippets of information, gleaned from the pages of the *Humpherys Herald*, paint a portrait of a family dispersed across the country, yet bound together by shared values and enduring love. The newsletters, like a patchwork quilt, stitched together the individual stories of the Humpherys clan, creating a vibrant tapestry of lives.
In 2021, Ken and Myrna shared a particularly poignant account of their year, recounting their travels to Star Valley, their health challenges, and the loss of friends and family members. Their words, filled with both sorrow and gratitude, captured the essence of the Humpherys spirit: a willingness to face adversity with courage and grace, a deep appreciation for the blessings of life, and an unwavering commitment to family.
"Writing this newsletter can be compared to home teaching," Ken and Myrna wrote. "One procrastinates, putting it off for another day, and then suddenly it is too late!" Their words, while self-deprecating, acknowledged the importance of staying connected, of sharing their stories, and of reaffirming their bonds with loved ones.
They recounted their summer in Star Valley, living in their trailer on their newly constructed pad, made possible by Tom Peavler. The simple act of camping on a flat spot, rather than the side of the hill, brought them immense joy, a testament to their ability to find contentment in the simplest of things.
Ken and Myrna also spoke of the challenges they faced, the smoke from the west coast fires, the altitude in Star Valley, and Ken's health problems. He had a bout with pneumonia and was later hospitalized with congestive heart failure. Yet, even in the midst of these difficulties, Ken remained focused on others, determined to attend his grandson Jake's missionary farewell.
"Ken told the doctor he didn’t have heart failure and needed to get out of the hospital to be at Jake’s missionary farewell!" Ken and Myrna wrote. "We listened to his talk on zoom, was there for the luncheon and Ken was able to stand in the circle to set him apart as a missionary."
Their account also touched on the loss of friends and family members, a reminder of the fragility of life and the importance of cherishing each moment. They attended the funerals of Myrna's sister, Mary Savage, and her brother-in-law, Oran Savage, as well as the funeral of Dean Evans, Gary's father.
Despite the sorrow, Ken and Myrna found joy in the simple things: the beauty of the Wyoming landscape, the companionship of their animals, and the love of their family. They ended their newsletter with a message of hope and gratitude, a testament to their enduring faith and their unwavering commitment to the Humpherys clan.
"There is much more that can be said," Ken and Myrna wrote. "We want all of the family to know how much we love and appreciate you all!"
Ken's life, like a winding trail through the Wyoming wilderness, was marked by both challenges and triumphs. He faced health problems with courage and resilience, explored new horizons with a sense of adventure, and remained steadfast in his commitment to faith, family, and service. His story, etched in the annals of the Humpherys family history, serves as an inspiration to future generations, a reminder that even in the midst of hardship, dreams can be realized, and legacies can be built.
And so, as the sun set over the Star Valley, casting long shadows across the landscape, the story of Ken Humpherys became another thread in the rich tapestry of the Humpherys family, a testament to the enduring power of love, resilience, and the unwavering spirit of those who dared to dream beyond the familiar horizons.
Chapter 13: Florence's Heart: A Storyteller's Legacy
# Florence's Heart: A Storyteller's Legacy
As Ken’s story, etched with the dust of Arizona and the crisp air of Star Valley, faded into the annals of the Humpherys family history, a new voice emerged, one filled with warmth, laughter, and a deep appreciation for the simple joys of life. This was Florence, daughter of Dean and Neva, a woman whose heart overflowed with love for her family and whose spirit shone as brightly as the Wyoming sun.
The 2010s, a decade marked by technological leaps and increasing global interconnectedness, saw the Humpherys family grappling with the challenges of a rapidly changing world. The rise of social media, the ever-present hum of the internet, and the shifting political landscape all contributed to a sense of both excitement and unease. Yet, amidst these swirling currents, Florence remained a steadfast anchor, a beacon of stability and love for her family.
The family newsletters, those annual chronicles of the Humpherys clan, offered glimpses into Florence’s world, a world centered on family, faith, and a deep appreciation for the beauty of the everyday. While the newsletters don't paint a complete portrait of Florence, they offer a series of vivid snapshots, capturing her essence and revealing the qualities that made her so beloved.
Florence, along with her sisters Nadean and Sharon, had been instrumental in organizing the very first Dean and Neva Humpherys Family Reunion in 1981. That first reunion, a humble gathering in Etna, had blossomed into a cherished tradition, a testament to the enduring power of family bonds and the importance of staying connected across generations. And Florence, with her warm smile and welcoming spirit, had always been at the heart of it all, ensuring that everyone felt included and valued.
As the years passed, Florence continued to play a vital role in the Humpherys family, offering support, guidance, and a listening ear to those in need. She was a confidante, a cheerleader, and a source of unwavering love. Her home in Pocatello, Idaho, became a haven for family members, a place where they could always find a warm meal, a comfortable bed, and a friendly face.
The family newsletters, those annual testaments to the Humpherys spirit, often highlighted Florence's warm personality and her talent for storytelling. She had a gift for capturing the essence of a moment, for weaving together words that painted vivid pictures in the minds of her readers. Her anecdotes were filled with humor, warmth, and a deep appreciation for the simple things in life.
In 2016, as she contributed to the family newsletter, Florence’s words echoed with a familiar cadence, a testament to her enduring spirit and her unwavering love for her family. "Hi all family," she wrote, her words imbued with a sense of warmth and familiarity. "So happy to once again compose the annual news."
Her words, though simple, conveyed a profound sense of connection, a reminder that even across the miles, the Humpherys family remained united by their shared history and their enduring love for one another. She spoke of the simple joys of life in Pocatello, Idaho, her home with her beloved husband, Larry, and their son, Vance. She wrote of reading books, watching movies, and enjoying the beauty of their surroundings.
"We know the way to the way to the local library," she quipped, her words laced with humor. "Mostly Home depot...Poky has its good points but it isn't Star Valley." Even in her adopted home, her heart yearned for the familiar landscapes and close-knit community of her childhood.
Florence also acknowledged the challenges that life inevitably brought. She spoke of health concerns, the loss of loved ones, and the ever-present struggles of daily life. Yet, even in the face of adversity, she remained steadfast in her faith and her commitment to her family.
"Seems like we lose a loved one every year," she wrote, her words tinged with sadness. "Bob is gone but never forgotten... We still tell his stories but will never be able to do the Indian chant... Johnny and Robert will always be in our heart." The passing of her brother Robert, and her brother-in-law Bob, weighed heavily on her heart, a poignant reminder of the fragility of life and the importance of cherishing every moment.
And then, with a characteristic blend of humor and warmth, she added, "Jimmy I am sorry you had to go thru all that planning only to have it fail. I would be lying if I didn’t admit your plan B made me happy. Can’t wait to see everyone...LOVE YOU ALL LARRY FLO VANCE PARKER..."
Her words, penned with a shaky hand and a heart full of love, served as a poignant reminder of the importance of cherishing each moment, of embracing the joys of life, and of finding strength in the bonds of family. She expressed her love for her family, her gratitude for their presence in her life, and her anticipation for the upcoming reunion, a chance to reconnect and celebrate their shared heritage.
In 2019, as the Humpherys family prepared for another reunion, Florence's health began to decline. Though she was unable to attend, her spirit remained present in the hearts of those who gathered to celebrate their shared history. Her love for family, her unwavering faith, and her talent for storytelling continued to inspire and uplift those around her.
As the years passed, Florence's voice became a cherished part of the Humpherys family narrative, a reminder of the importance of kindness, compassion, and unwavering love. Her stories, shared through the newsletters and whispered around family gatherings, became an integral part of the Humpherys legacy, a testament to the enduring power of the human spirit.
And then, in November of 2021, the final chapter of Florence's story began to unfold. Larry, her beloved husband, suffered a stroke, a sudden and devastating event that turned their world upside down. The stroke left Larry with compromised speech and limited mobility, requiring Florence to step into the role of caregiver, a task she embraced with unwavering devotion.
The family newsletters, once filled with stories of laughter and adventure, now chronicled the challenges of caring for a loved one with a debilitating illness. Vance, Florence and Larry’s son, stepped up to help care for his father, providing invaluable support and companionship. Parker, another son, also helped out.
In a poignant entry, Florence wrote of Larry's struggles, his frustration at being unable to communicate, and his longing for the simple pleasures he had once enjoyed. She spoke of her own exhaustion, the emotional toll of watching her husband suffer, and the constant worry about his well-being.
Yet, even in the midst of these hardships, Florence found moments of joy, glimpses of hope that pierced through the darkness. She wrote of Larry's good days, when his speech was clearer and his spirits were high. She spoke of the small victories, the moments when he was able to smile, to laugh, and to connect with those around him.
The family rallied around Florence and Larry, offering support, prayers, and words of encouragement. They visited often, bringing meals, helping with chores, and simply spending time with their loved ones. The Humpherys family, tested by adversity, once again demonstrated the strength of their bonds and their unwavering commitment to one another.
As 2024 dawned, Florence’s health began to fail. The weight of caring for Larry, coupled with her own health challenges, had taken its toll. She grew weaker, her energy diminished, but her spirit remained undimmed.
Then, in June of that year, the final chapter of Florence's story was written. She passed away, leaving a void in the hearts of all who knew and loved her. Her funeral, held in Etna, Wyoming, was a testament to her life of love, service, and unwavering devotion to family.
Newell, in his final newsletter, captured the essence of Florence's legacy: "Attending Aunt Florence's Funeral in Wyoming and remembering her wonderful life. Cherishing the time to be with family who were able to be there." His words, simple yet profound, spoke of the enduring power of memory, the importance of cherishing the time we have with loved ones, and the comfort that comes from knowing that their spirit lives on.
Vance, in his contribution to the newsletter, offered a heartfelt tribute to his mother: "Me and Parker are doing great. Can’t wait to see everyone at something other than a funeral. Love you guys!!" His words, though brief, conveyed a deep sense of love and gratitude, a recognition of the sacrifices his mother had made and the lessons she had taught him.
As the sun set over the mountains of Etna, Wyoming, the echoes of Florence's laughter, the whispers of her stories, and the warmth of her love lingered in the air. She was gone, but her spirit remained, a beacon of hope and inspiration for the Humpherys family, a reminder that even in the face of loss, the bonds of family could never be broken.
The torch had been passed, the flame tended by Florence now flickering brightly in the hands of the next generation. They would carry on her legacy of kindness, compassion, and unwavering devotion to family, ensuring that her spirit would continue to shine for generations to come.
Chapter 14: John's Quiet Battle: Living with PSP
# Chapter 14: John's Quiet Battle: Living with PSP
The torch had been passed, the flame tended by Florence now flickering brightly in the hands of the next generation. They would carry on her legacy of kindness, compassion, and unwavering devotion to family, ensuring that her spirit would continue to shine for generations to come. But the torch, heavy with the weight of history and the responsibility of the future, was not always easy to bear.
John Humpherys, another son of Dean and Neva, now stepped into the light. His story, unlike the adventurous tales of Robert or the musical serenade of Sally, was one of quiet strength in the face of relentless adversity. Diagnosed with progressive supranuclear palsy (PSP), a rare and debilitating brain disorder, John faced a daily battle against a body that was slowly betraying him. Yet, his spirit remained unbroken, his love for his family unwavering, and his determination to live life to the fullest a testament to the enduring power of the human will.
The 20th century, as it lurched towards its close, had been a century of unprecedented progress and unimaginable horrors. The world had witnessed the rise and fall of empires, the triumph of science and technology, and the devastating consequences of war and intolerance. The Cold War, which had cast a long shadow over the Humpherys family's early years, had finally come to an end, ushering in an era of globalization and interconnectedness. Yet, even amidst these momentous changes, the personal struggles of individuals like John Humpherys often went unnoticed, their stories overshadowed by the grand narratives of history.
John's early life, like that of his siblings, had been shaped by the values of Etna, Wyoming: hard work, self-reliance, and a deep connection to the land. He had learned to ride horses, fix fences, and tend to the garden, skills that instilled in him a sense of competence and a respect for the natural world. He had also inherited his parents' unwavering faith, a source of strength and solace that would sustain him through the trials to come.
The family newsletters, those annual chronicles of the Humpherys clan, offer glimpses into John's life before the onset of PSP. He was known for his quiet demeanor, his dry wit, and his love for his family. He had married Jan, a woman of warmth and compassion, and together they had raised three children: Curt, Chelsea, and Micky Ann. They had built a life filled with love, laughter, and shared experiences, creating memories that would sustain them through the challenges ahead.
In 1986, the Humpherys family reunion was held in Billings, a celebration of Jan, Curt, and Chelsea’s baptisms. John, always a man of faith, would have felt a deep sense of joy in witnessing his family embrace the gospel, strengthening the bonds that tied them together.
As the years passed, John's health began to decline. The symptoms of PSP, initially subtle, gradually became more pronounced. He experienced difficulty with balance, coordination, and speech. His movements became slow and deliberate, his once steady gait now marked by a shuffling stride. The diagnosis, when it finally came in December of 2020, was devastating. Progressive supranuclear palsy, a rare and incurable brain disorder, would gradually rob him of his physical abilities, leaving him trapped within a body that no longer obeyed his commands.
Jan, a pillar of strength and unwavering devotion, became John's primary caregiver. She learned to navigate the complexities of his condition, administering medications, assisting with daily tasks, and providing emotional support. She became his voice when he could no longer speak clearly, his hands when he could no longer grasp, and his legs when he could no longer walk.
The family newsletters, once filled with stories of travel and adventure, now reflected the challenges of living with a debilitating illness. In 2021, Jan wrote with characteristic honesty about John's condition, sharing the difficulties they faced and the strategies they had developed to cope. She spoke of the importance of therapy, which helped John maintain his mobility and speech for as long as possible. She also expressed her gratitude for the support of their family and friends, whose love and encouragement sustained them through the darkest days.
"John is doing okay," Jan wrote. "For those that don’t know, John was diagnosed with progressive supranucleur palsy in December of 2020. It is an aggressive form of Parkinson’s. He’s been doing therapy since his diagnosis, which helps keep him active. My health is fine."
Despite the challenges, John and Jan remained determined to live life to the fullest. They continued to travel, visiting family and exploring new places. They found joy in simple pleasures: a walk in the park, a visit from their grandchildren, a shared meal with friends. They refused to let PSP define them, choosing instead to focus on the blessings they still enjoyed.
The 2015 newsletter, edited by Melanie, contained a touching anecdote that revealed John's enduring spirit. During a family gathering, John, despite his difficulty with speech, insisted on telling a joke. He struggled to get the words out, his voice faltering and his movements labored. But with Jan's gentle encouragement and the patient support of his family, he persevered, finally delivering the punchline with a mischievous grin. The room erupted in laughter, a testament to John's ability to find humor even in the face of adversity.
Chelsea, John's daughter, also shared her perspective on her father's illness, highlighting his strength and resilience. She wrote of the importance of cherishing every moment, of appreciating the simple things in life, and of finding joy in the midst of sorrow. She also expressed her gratitude for her mother's unwavering devotion to her father, a love that served as an inspiration to them all.
"His voice has always reminded me of my Dad so it was emotional and I’m so thankful I went," Chelsea wrote.
In 2021, Jan wrote of the decision to get a puppy, a miniature schnauzer named Kobe. "John and I decided it was too quiet around here (ha!) so we decided that we needed a puppy," she explained. "We have been taking him to dog training. So far, we are the only ones being trained! He’s pretty stubborn, but we sure do love the little guy. He’s a lot of fun." The addition of Kobe brought a new sense of joy and companionship to their home, a reminder that even in the midst of hardship, there was always room for love and laughter.
As the years passed, John's condition continued to worsen, but his spirit remained unbroken. He found strength in his faith, in his family, and in the simple pleasures of life. He was a gentle giant, a man who had faced adversity with courage and grace, a testament to the enduring power of the human spirit.
In 2015, Jan shared a glimpse into their daily life, describing the challenges they faced and the strategies they had developed to cope. She spoke of the importance of routine, of maintaining a positive attitude, and of finding joy in the small moments. She also expressed her gratitude for the support of their family and friends, whose love and encouragement sustained them through the darkest days.
"It's not easy," Jan wrote. "But we take it one day at a time. We have good days and bad days, but we always try to focus on the good. We are so grateful for our family and friends, who have been so supportive. We couldn't do it without them."
John's story, though marked by hardship and loss, was also a story of love, resilience, and unwavering faith. He was a gentle giant, a man who had faced adversity with courage and grace, a testament to the enduring power of the human spirit. And as the torch passed to the next generation, his legacy of love and compassion would continue to guide and inspire those who followed. The newsletters, a testament to their shared heritage, would serve as a reminder of the importance of cherishing every moment and finding strength in the bonds of family.
In 2021, Chelsea shared a picture of her father as a baby, a poignant reminder of the vibrant life that had been slowly fading away. The image, a snapshot of innocence and potential, served as a powerful symbol of the human spirit's ability to endure, to find joy in the midst of sorrow, and to leave a lasting legacy of love and compassion.
As the sun set over the mountains of Etna, Wyoming, the echoes of John's laughter, the whispers of his stories, and the warmth of his love lingered in the air. He was engaged in a quiet battle, but his spirit remained unbroken, a beacon of hope and inspiration for the Humpherys family, a reminder that even in the face of adversity, the bonds of family could never be broken.
Chapter 15: Gerald's Grit: Accidents and Triumphs
# Gerald's Grit: Accidents and Triumphs
As John's story faded into the annals of the Humpherys family history, a new narrative emerged, one of resilience, humor, and the enduring spirit of a Wyoming cowboy. Gerald Humpherys, another son of Dean and Neva, embodied the grit and determination that had defined generations of his family. His life, marked by both accidents and triumphs, served as a testament to the power of a positive attitude and the importance of embracing life's challenges with unwavering resolve.
The echoes of John's laughter, the whispers of his stories, and the warmth of his love lingered in the air, a gentle reminder of the enduring power of family bonds. But as the torch passed to the next generation, a new chapter in the Humpherys saga began to unfold.
Gerald, like his siblings, had grown up in the shadow of the Tetons, learning the values of hard work, self-reliance, and a deep connection to the land. He had witnessed firsthand the challenges and triumphs of frontier life, and he had inherited the pioneering spirit that had driven his ancestors across the Atlantic and into the heart of the American West.
But Gerald was also a man of his own time, shaped by the changing landscape of the 20th century. As the world grappled with the Cold War, the Civil Rights Movement, and the rise of technology, Gerald navigated the complexities of modern life with a unique blend of traditional values and a forward-thinking perspective.
The family newsletters, those annual chronicles of the Humpherys clan, offer glimpses into Gerald's life, revealing his passions, his struggles, and his unwavering commitment to his family and community. In the 1984 edition, it was Gerald’s turn to host the annual family reunion, a testament to his commitment to the family and a way to bring everyone together.
One of the defining moments of Gerald's life was a harrowing horse accident that left him with lasting injuries. The details of the accident, while not explicitly detailed in the newsletters, were whispered throughout the family, a reminder of the dangers inherent in the cowboy lifestyle. But Gerald, never one to dwell on the negative, refused to let the accident define him. He embraced the challenges of recovery with his characteristic grit and determination, finding strength in his faith, his family, and his unwavering positive attitude.
The newsletters also chronicle Gerald's struggles with knee pain, a common ailment among those who had spent their lives working the land. In 2016, he made the decision to undergo a double knee replacement, a procedure that promised to alleviate his pain and restore his mobility. The surgery, while successful, was not without its challenges. Recovery was slow and arduous, requiring months of physical therapy and a unwavering commitment to the process.
But Gerald, with the unwavering support of his wife Tena, persevered. He approached his recovery with the same determination and positive attitude that he had brought to every other challenge in his life. He embraced the opportunity to learn new skills, to connect with others who had undergone similar experiences, and to find new ways to appreciate the simple joys of life.
Tena, ever the devoted wife and partner, was by Gerald's side every step of the way. She provided unwavering support, encouragement, and a healthy dose of tough love, ensuring that he stayed focused on his goals and never lost sight of the light at the end of the tunnel.
The family newsletters also highlight Gerald's passion for hosting family reunions, a tradition that had become a cornerstone of the Humpherys family. Gerald, with Tena by his side, embraced the opportunity to bring loved ones together, to celebrate their shared heritage, and to create lasting memories.
In 1993, Gerald and Tena hosted the reunion at the Star Valley Ranch, a sprawling resort nestled in the heart of the Wyoming wilderness. The event, a testament to their organizational skills and their love for family, was a resounding success. Family members from across the country converged on Star Valley, eager to reconnect with loved ones, to share stories, and to revel in the beauty of the surrounding landscape.
The reunions, under Gerald and Tena's leadership, became known for their lively atmosphere, their delicious food, and their abundance of laughter. They organized games and activities for all ages, ensuring that everyone felt included and valued. They also created opportunities for family members to share their talents, whether it was through music, storytelling, or simply offering a helping hand.
In 2003, Gerald and Tena hosted another memorable reunion in Etna, Wyoming, the family's ancestral home. The event, a celebration of their roots and their enduring connection to the land, was a poignant reminder of the values that had shaped their family for generations.
The newsletters also offer glimpses into Gerald's other passions, his love for horses, his enjoyment of the outdoors, and his unwavering commitment to his community. He was a skilled horseman, spending countless hours riding through the Wyoming wilderness, exploring its hidden trails, and connecting with the natural world. He was also an avid hunter, providing sustenance for his family and contributing to the management of local wildlife populations.
In 2019, Gerald reflected on his life, acknowledging the challenges he had faced and the lessons he had learned. "I am not saying it is boring, just that it don’t change from year to year," he wrote with characteristic humility. "I like what I do, it is a good mix."
He spoke of his love for his family, his appreciation for his blessings, and his unwavering faith in a higher power. He also acknowledged the pain of losing his brother Ray, a wound that would never fully heal.
"I am not the only one who feels this way," Newell confessed. "My other siblings feel the same way, and it has been such a traumatic thing to go through for all of us, especially, Becky and Ray's children and family."
Gerald, in his reflections, offered a message of hope and resilience, a reminder that even in the face of adversity, it was possible to find joy, meaning, and connection. He urged his family to cherish their shared heritage, to support one another through thick and thin, and to never lose sight of the values that had sustained them through generations.
As the torch passed to the next generation, Gerald's legacy of grit, humor, and unwavering commitment to family would continue to inspire and guide the Humpherys clan. His life, a testament to the power of a positive attitude and the importance of embracing life's challenges with unwavering resolve, would serve as a beacon of hope for generations to come.
In 2021, as the world continued to grapple with the COVID-19 pandemic, the Humpherys family found solace in their shared traditions, their enduring values, and the memories of those who had come before. The newsletters, a testament to their resilience and their unwavering commitment to one another, served as a reminder that even in the darkest of times, the bonds of family could never be broken.
And as the sun set over the mountains of Etna, Wyoming, the echoes of Gerald's laughter, the whispers of his stories, and the warmth of his love lingered in the air, a gentle reminder that even in the face of adversity, the human spirit could triumph, and the circle of family would remain unbroken.
Chapter 16: Newell's Vision: Connecting Generations Through Words
# Newell's Vision: Connecting Generations Through Words
As the torch passed to the next generation, Gerald's legacy of grit, humor, and unwavering commitment to family would continue to inspire and guide the Humpherys clan. His life, a testament to the power of a positive attitude and the importance of embracing life's challenges with unwavering resolve, would serve as a beacon of hope for generations to come.
In 2021, as the world continued to grapple with the COVID-19 pandemic, the Humpherys family found solace in their shared traditions, their enduring values, and the memories of those who had come before. The newsletters, a testament to their resilience and their unwavering commitment to one another, served as a reminder that even in the darkest of times, the bonds of family could never be broken.
And as the sun set over the mountains of Etna, Wyoming, the echoes of Gerald's laughter, the whispers of his stories, and the warmth of his love lingered in the air, a gentle reminder that even in the face of adversity, the human spirit could triumph, and the circle of family would remain unbroken.
But the torch, ever in motion, now passed to Newell, a quiet force whose vision extended beyond the immediate horizon. Newell, son of Dean and Neva, possessed a thoughtful nature, a keen eye for detail, and a deep appreciation for the power of words. He was the family's first chronicler, the architect of a tradition that would bridge generations and preserve their shared history for posterity. His vision was simple yet profound: to connect the far-flung branches of the Humpherys family through the written word, to create a living document that would capture their lives, their dreams, and their enduring spirit.
The late 1980s were a time of both technological advancement and lingering Cold War anxieties. While the world marveled at the rise of personal computers and the burgeoning internet, the threat of nuclear conflict still cast a long shadow. Yet, in the small town of Etna, Wyoming, the Humpherys family found solace and connection in the simple act of sharing their stories.
In 1988, Newell took on the task of compiling the first edition of *The Humpherys Herald*. This was no small undertaking. In the pre-internet era, communication across distances was a laborious process, reliant on handwritten letters, expensive long-distance phone calls, and the slow churn of the postal service. Yet, Newell, driven by a deep sense of duty and a genuine love for his family, embraced the challenge with characteristic dedication.
The first edition, a modest affair typed and photocopied, was a labor of love, a lifeline thrown across the miles that separated them. It was a simple chronicle of births, marriages, graduations, and milestones, a tapestry woven from the threads of everyday life. Newell, with his knack for detail and warm, personal tone, managed to capture the essence of each family, painting vivid portraits of their joys and sorrows.
The newsletters of that era were a window into a world on the cusp of transformation. In 1990, Newell compiled the second edition of *The Humpherys Herald*. The world was changing rapidly. The Berlin Wall had fallen the previous year, signaling the end of the Cold War and ushering in a new era of hope and possibility. Yet, amidst these global shifts, the Humpherys family remained grounded in their values, their faith, and their unwavering commitment to one another.
The early 1990s saw Newell continuing his editorial reign, producing the third edition in 1991 and the fourth in 1992. These were years of economic uncertainty, with the nation grappling with a recession and rising unemployment. Yet, within the pages of *The Humpherys Herald*, a different story unfolded, a story of resilience, resourcefulness, and the enduring power of family.
The newsletters became a vehicle for sharing memories, celebrating achievements, and offering support during difficult times. They were a tangible expression of the family's enduring bond, a testament to the vision of Dean and Neva.
But Newell's contributions extended beyond the mere act of editing. He instilled in the newsletter a sense of purpose, a commitment to accuracy, and a respect for the voices of all family members. He created a space where everyone felt welcome to share their stories, regardless of their background, their beliefs, or their experiences.
As the years passed, the mantle of editorship was passed from one family member to another, each adding their unique voice and perspective to the ongoing family saga. Ray, Kelly, Jim, Nadean, Sherrie, Mary Lynn, Linda, Stephanie, Pam, Lisa, Michelle, Nicole, Laurie, Hilary, Ryan, Josh, Curt, and Kim all took their turn at the helm, each contributing to the growing chronicle of the Humpherys family.
In 2016, Newell reflected on his time as the first editor of *The Humpherys Herald*, expressing his gratitude for the opportunity to serve his family and to preserve their history for future generations. He acknowledged the challenges of compiling the newsletter, the time commitment, and the occasional frustrations of chasing down elusive family members for updates. But he also emphasized the rewards, the joy of connecting with loved ones, the satisfaction of creating something meaningful, and the knowledge that he was contributing to a legacy that would endure for years to come.
"I am so grateful to have had the opportunity to serve my family in this way," Newell wrote. "It has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. I hope that the Humpherys Herald will continue to be a source of connection and inspiration for our family for many years to come."
Even after relinquishing his editorial duties, Newell remained a staunch supporter of *The Humpherys Herald*, contributing articles, offering advice to new editors, and ensuring that the newsletter remained true to its original vision. He understood the importance of preserving the family's history, of celebrating their shared heritage, and of fostering a sense of belonging that transcended time and distance.
The newsletters also chronicled the larger events that shaped their world. The Cold War, the Civil Rights Movement, the Vietnam War – these national and global events touched their lives in ways both big and small. They felt the anxieties of the era, the fear of the unknown, but they also found strength in their community and in their faith.
The newsletters also reveal the evolving dynamics within the family. As the children grew older, they began to pursue their own dreams and ambitions, branching out from Etna to explore the wider world. Newell became the keeper of the family flame, meticulously documenting their lives and ensuring that their story would be preserved for future generations. Ray, with his adventurous spirit, became a focal point, his life a reminder of the fragility and preciousness of human existence.
The 1980s brought new challenges and opportunities. The rise of technology, the changing economic landscape, and the increasing pace of modern life all impacted the Humpherys family. But through it all, they remained grounded in the values that Dean and Neva had instilled in them: hard work, faith, and the importance of family.
In 2020, as the world was plunged into the depths of the COVID-19 pandemic, Newell once again stepped up to the plate, taking on the role of editor for the 30th edition of *The Humpherys Herald*. In his note, he expressed his gratitude for the opportunity to serve his family and to connect with them during a time of unprecedented isolation. He also shared his hope that the newsletter tradition would continue for many years to come, a testament to the enduring power of family bonds.
The 2020 edition, a "Special Baby Pictures Edition," was a celebration of new life and a reminder of the enduring power of family bonds. The newsletter entries from that year reflected the anxieties and uncertainties of the time, but also the resilience and hope that characterized the Humpherys family.
"I do not know how long this newsletter tradition will last, but I hope it will keep going for a long time," Newell wrote. "I love each and every one of you. I feel very blessed to be a part of the Humpherys Family. Dean Gardner Humpherys and Neva Clark Humpherys left us an amazing legacy, one of which we can all be proud of and grateful for."
The COVID-19 pandemic forced families to find new ways to connect and support one another. Video calls, online games, and virtual gatherings became the norm. The Humpherys family, scattered across the country, relied on these technologies to stay in touch and maintain their bonds.
As the world grappled with the pandemic, the Humpherys family found solace in their shared heritage and the enduring values that had sustained them through generations. They were reminded of the importance of faith, family, hard work, and a love for the outdoors. They were determined to weather the storm together, confident in their ability to overcome any challenge.
And so, Newell's vision, born from a simple desire to connect his family, had blossomed into a powerful force, a legacy of words that would continue to shape the Humpherys family for generations to come. His commitment to preserving their history, to celebrating their achievements, and to fostering a sense of belonging would serve as a beacon of hope in a world often marked by division and uncertainty.
As the sun set over the mountains of Etna, Wyoming, the echoes of Newell's thoughtful words, the whispers of his stories, and the warmth of his love lingered in the air, a gentle reminder that even in the face of adversity, the human spirit could triumph, and the circle of family would remain unbroken.
As Newell's chapter closed, the stage was set for the next act in the Humpherys saga, a shift in focus to the grandchildren of Dean and Neva, a new generation poised to carry the torch of their ancestors into an uncertain future.
Chapter 17: The Grandchildren's Tapestry: Weaving New Threads
# The Grandchildren's Tapestry: Weaving New Threads
As the echoes of Newell's thoughtful words faded into the Wyoming twilight, the Humpherys family stood poised on the precipice of a new era. The torch, heavy with the weight of tradition and the warmth of shared memories, was passed to the grandchildren of Dean and Neva, a generation tasked with weaving new threads into the ever-expanding tapestry of their family story. The world outside Etna, Wyoming, was a world in flux. The Cold War had thawed, giving way to a sense of global interconnectedness, but new anxieties simmered beneath the surface. The rise of the internet, the dawn of the information age, promised unprecedented opportunities, but also presented new challenges to the values and traditions that had sustained the Humpherys family for generations.
As the grandchildren stepped into the spotlight, their individual stories began to unfold, each one a unique expression of the Humpherys spirit, shaped by the lessons of the past and the possibilities of the future. The annual family newsletters, now a cherished tradition, became their canvas, a space to share their triumphs and tribulations, their dreams and aspirations, and their unwavering commitment to one another.
The newsletters from the late 1990s and early 2000s offer a glimpse into the lives of these grandchildren, a diverse group of individuals navigating the complexities of adulthood in a rapidly changing world. There was Jimmy, the Star Valley handyman, and Carol, the quiet observer. There was Kim, the barrel-racing queen, and Pam, the keeper of family memories. There was Kelly, the Nevada adventurer, and Sherrie, the Alaskan pioneer. There was Florence, the storyteller, and John, the quiet strength. There was Robert, the outdoorsman, and Gerald, the jovial host. And there was Newell, the thoughtful chronicler, who had set the stage for them all.
Each of these grandchildren carried within them the indelible mark of Dean and Neva, their values etched into their souls. They were hard-working, resilient, and fiercely loyal to their family. They were also independent, creative, and eager to explore the world beyond the familiar landscapes of Etna, Wyoming.
Kim, known as Kimberly Ann now, a granddaughter of Dean and Neva, found her passion in the world of horses. As the 2016 newsletter revealed, she was a force to be reckoned with on the barrel-racing circuit, her skill and determination honed through years of practice and a deep connection to her equine partners. Her love for horses was more than just a hobby; it was a way of life, a source of solace and strength in the face of adversity.
The newsletters often highlighted Kim's achievements in the arena, her victories celebrated with pride and admiration by the entire family. But they also revealed the challenges she faced, the long hours of training, the financial sacrifices, and the emotional toll of competition. Yet, through it all, Kim remained steadfast in her pursuit, her passion fueled by a deep love for the sport and a desire to honor the legacy of her grandparents.
In 2017, Kim took on the mantle of editor for The Humpherys Herald, a testament to her commitment to preserving the family's history and connecting generations through words. Her edition, filled with heartfelt anecdotes and family photos, captured the essence of the Humpherys spirit. "2016 was a mixture of good and bad," she wrote, acknowledging the inevitable ebb and flow of life. She spoke of the loss of Bob, a father figure to her, and the lessons she learned from his life and death. She recalled a trip to Wyoming with Mandy, Chris, Sawyer, and Sophia, where they played softball with Neva, a testament to the enduring power of family bonds.
While Kim was carving out her own path in the world of barrel racing, her sister, Pam, found her calling in a different arena: the world of retail. As a long-time employee of Murdochs, a local store that catered to the needs of ranchers and farmers, Pam became a fixture in the community, known for her friendly demeanor and her expertise in all things related to power equipment.
The newsletters often mentioned Pam's dedication to her work, her willingness to go the extra mile for her customers, and her deep knowledge of the products she sold. In 2016, Sharon wrote of Pam, "Pam still works at Murdochs in Missoula. I hope they have half a clue how lucky they are to have her, especially in these wacko days of covid. As with all businesses, help is almost impossible to find. I know she carries more of the weight than she should. I'm thankful and proud of my sister."
While Kim and Pam were making their mark in the world, their cousins, Kelly and Sherrie, were exploring new frontiers in Nevada and Alaska. Kelly, after a stint in the military, settled in Henderson, Nevada, where he worked as an estimator, his analytical skills and attention to detail honed through years of service. Sandra, his wife, continued her career as a dental assistant, providing care and comfort to patients in need.
The newsletters often highlighted Kelly and Sandra's adventures, their travels to exotic destinations, and their involvement in community events. In 2016, Kelly recounted a whirlwind year that included a heart attack and open-heart surgery, a trip to San Diego for their 28th anniversary, and a visit to Ketchikan, Alaska, to see Sherrie and Brent. His resilience and positive attitude, even in the face of adversity, were an inspiration to the entire family.
Sherrie, along with her husband, Brent, had embraced the rugged beauty of Alaska, carving out a life in the remote town of Ketchikan. Brent worked as the Port Captain/dock facility and operations manager for NOAA, while Sherrie devoted her time to managing their home and exploring the vast wilderness that surrounded them.
The newsletters often featured Sherrie's descriptions of Alaskan wildlife, her encounters with bears and eagles, and her appreciation for the unique challenges and rewards of living in such a remote location. In 2021, Sherrie wrote, "We really love Alaska and all it has to offer for us. It’s just too far away from Idaho and living on an island has its major challenges."
While Kim, Pam, Kelly, and Sherrie were forging their own paths, their cousins, Florence and John, were navigating the complexities of family life and professional careers. Florence, a warm and nurturing presence, devoted her time to raising her son, Vance, and supporting her husband, Larry, in his various endeavors. John, known for his quiet strength and unwavering integrity, worked as a teacher, shaping the minds of young people and making a positive impact on his community.
The newsletters often highlighted Florence and John's commitment to their families, their involvement in church activities, and their dedication to serving others. In 2016, Jan wrote of John, "John is doing okay. For those that don’t know, John was diagnosed with progressive supranucleur palsy in December of 2020. It is an aggressive form of Parkinson’s. He’s been doing therapy since his diagnosis, which helps keep him active. My health is fine."
As the grandchildren of Dean and Neva continued to weave their individual threads into the Humpherys tapestry, their lives became a testament to the enduring power of family, the resilience of the human spirit, and the importance of cherishing the moments we have with those we love. Their stories, shared through the pages of The Humpherys Herald, served as a reminder that even in a world of constant change, the values instilled by their ancestors would continue to guide them, providing a compass for navigating the complexities of life and a source of strength in times of both joy and sorrow.
The grandchildren of Dean and Neva, in their diverse pursuits and unwavering commitment to family, were carrying the torch of their ancestors, illuminating the path forward for generations to come. As the next chapter would reveal, the great-grandchildren of Dean and Neva were poised to inherit this legacy, ready to add their own unique colors and textures to the ever-expanding tapestry of the Humpherys family.
Chapter 18: The Great-Grandchildren: Seeds of the Future
# The Great-Grandchildren: Seeds of the Future
As the sun dipped behind the Tetons, casting long shadows across the Star Valley, the story of Dean and Neva Humpherys reached a new vista. The lives of their children, grandchildren, and now, their great-grandchildren, formed an intricate tapestry, each thread a testament to the enduring values they had instilled. The newsletters, those annual chronicles of a close-knit clan, now turned their gaze towards the future, to the seeds of potential sown in the youngest generation.
The early 21st century was a world Dean and Neva could scarcely have imagined. Technology had woven its way into every facet of life, connecting people across vast distances and offering unprecedented access to information. The global landscape was shifting, with new challenges and opportunities emerging at every turn. Yet, amidst this rapid change, the Humpherys family clung to the timeless values of faith, family, hard work, and a deep connection to the land.
The great-grandchildren of Dean and Neva were coming of age in this new world, inheriting a legacy of resilience, resourcefulness, and unwavering commitment to one another. Their lives, as chronicled in the newsletters, were a testament to the enduring power of family bonds and the promise of a bright future.
In 2021, as the world continued to grapple with the COVID-19 pandemic, the Humpherys family found new ways to connect and support one another. Social distancing and travel restrictions may have kept them physically apart, but the bonds of family remained strong, strengthened by shared experiences and a deep sense of belonging.
The newsletters from this time reflect the anxieties and uncertainties of the era, but also the unwavering hope and optimism that defined the Humpherys spirit. They told of graduations and new careers, of marriages and births, of triumphs and tribulations, all interwoven with the enduring threads of faith, family, and a love for the outdoors.
The great-grandchildren of Dean and Neva were now making their mark on the world, pursuing diverse passions and carving out their own unique paths. Their lives, as chronicled in the newsletters, were a testament to the values instilled by their ancestors and the promise of a bright future.
The children of Kim and Bryan, Sawyer and Sophia Williams, were thriving in South Dakota. Sawyer, a natural athlete, excelled in baseball, football, and rodeo, embodying the spirit of competition and determination. Sophia, a bright and creative young woman, excelled in academics and the arts, showcasing her talent and passion for learning.
The children of Kelly and Sandra, Brooke and Tanner, were also making their mark on the world. Brooke, after facing health challenges, had found a passion working for the Vegas Golden Knights, demonstrating resilience and determination. Tanner, with his wife Teesha, were raising their children, Scarlett and Hendrix, in Ivins, Utah, instilling in them the values of hard work and family.
The children of DeAna and Brian, Savannah, Ian, and Abby, were pursuing diverse interests and passions. Savannah, smart and hardworking, was adulting like a boss, making her parents proud with her accomplishments. Ian, a junior in high school, was popular with his classmates and teachers, excelling in academics and athletics. Abby, an eighth-grader, was popular with friends, smart and capable, and found joy in Krav Maga.
The grandchildren of Florence and Larry, Parker and Lacee, were also making their mark on the world. Parker, a talented athlete, excelled in basketball and other sports, while Lacee pursued her own passions and interests.
The grandchildren of Jan and John, Curt, Chelsea, and Micky Ann, were also thriving in their respective fields. Curt was pursuing his career, Chelsea was raising her children, Tyler, Ella, and Jackson, and Micky Ann was making her own contributions to the world.
The grandchildren of Robert, Rusty, Luke, Timmy, Mary Joe, and Neva, were also carrying on the Humpherys legacy, pursuing their dreams and making a difference in their communities.
The grandchildren of Gerald and Tena, Linda, Shawn, and Shane, were also making their mark on the world, pursuing diverse careers and raising their own families. Linda was working at an elementary school, Shawn was coaching basketball, and Shane was also coaching basketball.
The grandchildren of Newell and Sally, C.J. and Camille, were also thriving in their respective fields. C.J. was working for the Border Patrol, and Camille was a medical doctor.
The great-grandchildren of Dean and Neva were a diverse group, each with their own unique talents, interests, and aspirations. Yet, they were all united by a shared heritage, a common set of values, and an unwavering commitment to one another.
The newsletters from this era reflected the changing times and the evolving dynamics within the family. They told of graduations and new careers, of marriages and births, of triumphs and tribulations. They also spoke of the challenges of raising children in an increasingly complex world, the importance of staying true to one’s values, and the enduring power of faith and family.
As the 2021 newsletter came together, it was noted that 32 years of Humpherys family newsletters had been created.
The great-grandchildren of Dean and Neva, the seeds of the future, were poised to inherit this legacy, ready to add their own unique colors and textures to the ever-expanding tapestry of the Humpherys family. Their lives, as chronicled in the newsletters, were a testament to the enduring power of family bonds and the promise of a bright future.
Among the news of the great-grandchildren, the 2021 newsletter shared some of the following details:
* **Jimmy & Stacy:** Welcomed two more granddaughters, Hannah Kate and Letti Jane.
* **Logan & Annie:** Welcomed baby Letti Jane, who was loved by her big sister Rue.
* **Katie & Ty:** Welcomed baby Hannah Kate, with big sister Nora starting preschool.
* **Rilee & Hayden:** Celebrated one-year anniversary, with Hayden in a band and Rilee opening her own esthetics suite.
* **Sharon, Kim, Bryan & Pam:** Shared stories of trips to Montana and barrel racing achievements.
* **Chris & Mandy:** Celebrated the twins turning 10, with both excelling in sports and 4-H.
* **Ken & Myrna:** Recounted their summer in Star Valley and Ken's health challenges.
* **Kelly & Sandra:** Endured Covid-related issues and Kelly's broken leg, but celebrated blessings and family.
* **Brooke:** Shared her health struggles but also her excitement for her job with the Vegas Golden Knights.
* **Tanner & Teesha:** Continued living in Ivins, Utah, with Scarlett starting preschool and Hendrix growing fast.
* **Sherrie & Brent:** Described life in Alaska, with a new metal roof and a visit from DeAna, Brian, and Savannah.
* **DeAna & Brian:** Navigated Covid and opened DeAna's massage studio, with Ian getting his driver's permit and Abby excelling in Krav Maga.
* **Mary Lynn & Gary:** Enjoyed snowmobiling and basketball, with Jake receiving his mission call.
* **Emalee:** Transferred to Idaho State University and worked on a flower farm.
* **Jake:** Served his mission in Michigan, driving combine and tractor as a missionary.
* **Barry & Alisa:** Continued living in Mandeville, Louisiana, with Addyson, Garrett, and Wyatt pursuing their interests.
* **Florence, Larry & Vance:** Faced Larry's stroke and his rehab, with Vance providing invaluable support.
* **Jan & John:** Welcomed a puppy named Kobe and continued to cope with John's progressive supranucleur palsy.
* **Chelsea & Jason:** Homeschooled Jackson, traveled to Montana and Florida, and celebrated Jason's new job.
* **Marisela & Neva:** Continued working at the care center, with Marisela pursuing her CNA certification.
* **Tim & Cassandra:** Moved to Denver, with Paisley starting first grade and Tim remaining the Reserve World Champion in Saddle Bronc Riding.
* **Becky:** Continued living her normal routine and celebrated holidays with family.
* **Lisa & Jason:** Celebrated their one-year anniversary, with Allison preparing for college and Paige excelling in clogging.
* **Michelle & Ben:** Enjoyed Ben's new career as a full-time actor and supported their children's various activities.
* **Stephanie & Drew:** Celebrated their 20th wedding anniversary, with Brooklyn preparing for college and Riley exploring new hobbies.
* **Melanie & Elliot:** Dealt with Covid and Elliot's shoulder surgery, but also enjoyed family trips and music festivals.
* **Ryan & Natalie:** Celebrated Claire's third birthday, traveled to Florida, and pursued social work.
* **Gerald & Tena:** Continued enjoying ball games and hosting family reunions, with Gerald reflecting on his horse accident.
* **Linda & Nathan:** Linda worked at elementary school, and continued to enjoy baby sitting.
* **Trae & Marley:** Moved to Wichita, Kansas, with Trae pursuing his PA program and Marley working as a dental assistant.
* **Shawn & Hilary:** Built a new house, with Shawn coaching basketball and Hilary returning to school.
* **Shane & Nicole:** Continued coaching basketball, with Nash, Sloane, Hayes, and Jayde pursuing their interests.
* **C.J. & Laurie:** Traveled to Nevada City and embarked on a month-long road trip, with CJ working for Border Patrol and Laurie working as a paraprofessional.
* **Camille & Lance:** Continued to travel and pursue their careers, with Camille selling medical software and Lance working as a medical doctor.
As the sun set over the mountains, casting long shadows across the valley, the great-grandchildren of Dean and Neva Humpherys stood poised on the brink of a new era, ready to embrace the challenges and opportunities that lay ahead. Their lives, like the threads of a tapestry, were interwoven with the values of faith, family, hard work, and a love for the outdoors, a legacy that would endure for generations to come.
Chapter 19: A Legacy Endures: The Enduring Power of Family
# Chapter 19: A Legacy Endures: The Enduring Power of Family
As the final page of the Humpherys family history is turned, a sense of completion washes over the narrative, yet the story itself remains eternally open. Like the vast Wyoming sky that cradled their beginnings, the legacy of Dean and Neva Humpherys stretches onward, carried in the hearts and actions of generations yet to come. The homestead in Etna, no longer a bustling center of activity but a quiet sentinel of the past, stands as a potent symbol: a place of memories, a touchstone for a family forged in faith, resilience, and an unyielding love for one another.
The year is 2024. The world outside the Humpherys family – a world grappling with technological leaps, political divides, and the ever-present hum of uncertainty – feels both distant and intimately connected. The annual newsletter, a tradition stretching back over three decades, arrives once again, a paper lifeline connecting far-flung relatives, a testament to the enduring power of shared stories.
Newell and Sally, those steadfast anchors of the family, take the helm once more, their lives a testament to a love that has weathered the storms of time. Their entry in the 2024 edition of the Humpherys Herald speaks of simple joys and quiet adventures, of a life lived in harmony with nature and a deep appreciation for the bonds of kinship.
“Newell and Sally's 2024 was filled again with many good memories and many blessings,” the newsletter begins. Their journey to the Hawaiian island of Kaua’i, a tropical paradise far removed from the familiar landscapes of Wyoming, offered respite and renewal. Swimming in the warm ocean waters, basking in the sun, and hiking amidst lush greenery, they reveled in the beauty of the natural world, a connection that had always been a source of strength and solace.
The echoes of loss, however, are never far away. The passing of Aunt Florence, a woman remembered for her warmth, her storytelling, and her unwavering commitment to family, casts a shadow over the year. Her absence is keenly felt, a reminder of the fleeting nature of life and the importance of cherishing every moment.
Yet, even in the midst of sorrow, the Humpherys family finds ways to celebrate life and honor the memory of those who have gone before. The annual family reunion, held once again in Nevada City, California, becomes a focal point, a time for laughter, shared stories, and the reaffirmation of enduring bonds. Boating on the lake, swimming in the pool, and celebrating the Fourth of July together, they create new memories while cherishing the old.
The younger generations, too, are making their mark on the world, carrying forward the values instilled in them by their ancestors. The Roisum family, with their young children Beckham and Rowyn, find joy in simple pleasures: cheering on BYU football, vacationing in Arizona and Florida, and reveling in the love and laughter that fills their home.
The Lamoreaux family, navigating the complexities of modern life, find strength in their shared experiences and unwavering support for one another. Brian continues his work for the federal government, while Linda thrives in her role as a business owner. Their children, Ian and Abby, pursue their passions, finding their own paths while remaining connected to their family roots.
The Spear family, scattered across the country, find ways to stay connected, sharing their triumphs and challenges in the annual newsletter. Drew continues his law practice, while Stephanie dedicates herself to her family and her church. Their children, Brooklyn, Riley, Stockton, and Sadie, pursue their individual interests, embodying the values of hard work, creativity, and a love for learning.
Ken and Myrna, those steadfast pillars of the family, continue to serve and inspire, their lives a testament to faith, resilience, and a deep commitment to others. Their journey, marked by both hardship and joy, serves as a beacon of hope, reminding everyone that even in the face of adversity, love and compassion can triumph.
Emalee Evans, a young woman embarking on her own path, embodies the spirit of adventure and the pursuit of knowledge. Her dedication to her studies and her passion for her chosen field reflect the values of hard work and a commitment to excellence that have always been hallmarks of the Humpherys family.
Megan Evans, a sophomore at Idaho State University, finds fulfillment in her studies and her involvement in sports, embodying the values of teamwork, dedication, and a love for physical activity. Her commitment to education and her passion for coaching reflect the Humpherys family's belief in the importance of giving back to the community.
Vance, ever the quiet observer, offers a simple message of love and connection, a reminder that even in the midst of life's complexities, the bonds of family remain a source of strength and solace. His words, though few, carry a weight of sincerity, a testament to the enduring power of kinship.
Jason and Lisa, those steadfast partners in life and love, continue to navigate the joys and challenges of raising a blended family, their lives a testament to compassion, understanding, and the enduring power of commitment. Their dedication to their children and their unwavering support for one another serve as an inspiration to all who know them.
Mandy and Chris, those tireless advocates for their children, continue to support Sawyer and Sophia in their various pursuits, from sports to academics to the arts. Their dedication to their family and their unwavering commitment to their values serve as a reminder of the importance of nurturing the talents and passions of the next generation.
CJ and Laurie, those adventurous souls, continue to explore the world, sharing their experiences with their children and instilling in them a love for travel and a thirst for knowledge. Their commitment to family, faith, and service serves as a beacon of hope, reminding everyone that even in a world of constant change, the values of compassion and generosity can endure.
Porter, a young man embarking on his own path, embodies the spirit of service and the desire to make a difference in the world. His decision to pursue a career in law enforcement reflects his commitment to protecting and serving his community, a testament to the values instilled in him by his family.
Damien and Alyssa, those young lovers united by faith and a shared sense of adventure, embark on a new chapter in their lives, their journey a testament to the enduring power of love and the promise of a bright future. Their commitment to each other and their unwavering faith serve as an inspiration to all who know them.
Elliot and Melanie, those steadfast partners in life and love, continue to navigate the joys and challenges of raising a large family, their lives a testament to resilience, humor, and an unwavering commitment to one another. Their dedication to their children and their ability to find joy in the midst of chaos serve as a reminder that even in the most demanding of circumstances, love can triumph.
Ryan and Natalie, those creative and compassionate souls, continue to make a difference in the world, using their talents to uplift and inspire those around them. Their commitment to their community and their unwavering belief in the power of hope serve as a beacon of light, reminding everyone that even in the darkest of times, there is always reason to believe in a better tomorrow.
Gerald and Tena, those steadfast pillars of the family, continue to find joy in the simple things: horseback riding, gardening, and spending time with their loved ones. Their unwavering commitment to their values and their deep appreciation for the beauty of the natural world serve as a reminder of the importance of living a life of purpose and meaning.
Linda and Nathan, those dedicated educators and loving grandparents, continue to make a positive impact on the lives of those around them, their lives a testament to the power of education, compassion, and a deep commitment to family. Their unwavering support for their children and grandchildren serves as an inspiration to all who know them.
As the sun sets over the mountains of Etna, Wyoming, casting long shadows across the valley, the story of the Humpherys family draws to a close, yet the echoes of their lives continue to resonate through the generations. The homestead, a place of memories and dreams, stands as a symbol of their enduring connection to the land and to one another.
The circle remains unbroken, a testament to the enduring power of family bonds, a reminder that even in the face of adversity, love and loyalty will always prevail. The story of the Humpherys family, a story of faith, resilience, and unwavering commitment to one another, will continue to inspire and guide generations to come.
And so, as the final page is turned, the words of Dean and Neva Humpherys, those guiding lights of the family, linger in the air: “Such is life,” a reminder to embrace the challenges and celebrate the joys, and “Anything that is worth doing is worth doing well,” a call to excellence in all aspects of life. Their legacy endures, a beacon of hope and a testament to the enduring power of family.